Girl at the store still encourages me on dating again but she respected me when I told her I’m taking a break from dating?

[Anonymous]

[hahahmm]

she's fishing for a date, i guess. Let me re-phrase. She's fishing for a guy dumb enough to buy her a steak dinner in exchange for nothing.

[Asker]

I don't know. When I was talking to her. I wasn’t getting any vibes of her getting attached to me. Also she works at a sex shop and it’s the only store they sell my pop rocks in my township. Also I felt like I was being treated as a customer.

[hahahmm]

Women love to avoid rejection by throwing hints they're interested instead of being direct. Happens all the time.

[Asker]

She told me her hours at the store a few weeks ago. Let time I was there she was acting normal and was busy working. If she was interested she would of either given me her number or given me more easier hints or clues that she’s really interested. she knows I want to buy spicy products but can’t since I’m not seeing anyone. But right now it’s hard telling if she’s interested or she’s being professional on her job.

[hahahmm]

"If she was interested she would of either given me her number or given me more easier hints or clues that she’s really interested" - Nope. She knows there's 30 other dudes who will walk up to her and be direct so she has no need to take risks.

[WhitneySnow]

She’s really cool

[Asker]

Yes, she even told me after my date blew me off is “ don’t give up ” and “ don’t let someone ruin your changes with someone else “ she didn’t want me to give up on dating. Right now i’m trying to figure out if she’s either likes me or she’s being friendly but I’m having some troubles looking for the clues

[WhitneySnow]

Could be either. Try asking her out. You’ve got nothing to lose.

[Asker]

She sounds available and It’s not easy asking older people out. Plus she works at a store that only sells a rare candy I like called pop rocks. I hate to lost that connection to the pop rocks if she rejects me

[WhitneySnow]

She won’t stop selling you pop rocks cause you asked her out and she said no

[Asker]

Yeah but there’s Awkwardness that people don’t like

[WhitneySnow]

Oh ok. Then maybe don’t ask her out?

[Asker]

I wish there’s a solid way to know if she’s interested or she being friendly. Yesterday she sound excited when I walk in. Oh she also sounded like she wants me to keep coming back when she’s working

[WhitneySnow]

There’s no way to know for sure. You either gotta ask her out or not do it.

[TheMajesticKing777]

Okay what's the question