Did she change her mind about dating me?

[MarioFan200]

At the end of a second date with a girl, at the door of her apartment before leaving I asked if she'd be down to go on more dates. I could sense hesitancy in her answers. She said we could go on another date, but she said things like "keep it casual", "I'm not looking for anything serious", "I don't want to lead you on" and things like that. Technically she did agree to "one more date", but I left that night under the impression she's probably not interested so I decided to slow it down and not reach out for a while. However a couple days later she actually reached out to me, just asking me how my day was and from then on the rest of the week she's been engaged in our texting conversations. I wasn't gonna ask her out but since we've texted a bit I ended up asking her out to a campus event the night of, to which she agreed and we had a great time. We still text, but her responses have gotten slower (she says she's busy) however she still continues the conversation in her replies. I asked her out on another date this weekend when I ran into her in person, to which she agreed with no hesitancy.

So from all this I'm a little confused as to why she didn't seem interested but she's being very reciprocative in our texting and going out recently.

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that is a confusing situation bro. On the one hand, she did seem lukewarm at first about dating again. But now she's hitting you up and going out, so who knows.

A few things could be going on:

- She didn't want to seem too eager since it was early, but actually does dig you. Her shy way of showing it.

- She wanted to play it cool at first but decided to give you a real shot after hanging more. Feelings grew.

- She wanted to keep options open but realized none are as fun as you. Making the most of it now.

Hard to say for sure. I'd say roll with it for now, see how this date goes. Keep an eye on how engaged she seems.

If she's kissing you goodnight, seems interested when you're together, that's a good sign. Don't read too much into texts.

Just enjoy your time together and see where it leads naturally. Let me know how it goes - maybe she really does wanna make this work out after all, bro!

[Anonymous]

It sounds like she is being straight with you, but you are wanting to be pushy.