Bit of a long story before I start. Where I work a new girl has joined. She's essentiality my work neighbour. At first I had no romantic interest, our relationship was pure friendly. When I got to know her on a more personal level and learned more about her personality I developed a crush. My other female friend (let's call her Ann) seeing this spoke with her about our closeness and what she felt about me. She didn't feel the same way. She only saw me as a friend. Ann told me she didn't want anything to be awkward between us and that she was just gonna act normal from now on. I understood and from then on I made sure to simply act as friends whenever we saw each other. But the problem was what came next. Despite her saying she wanted to act normal around me so nothing was awkward she in my opinion was getting way closer to me than I was. Whenever and while we spoke she would lean in so close to me into my personal space that her scarf and chest were touching my arms. When I'm talking with others I would catch her glancing at me. I was on a phonecall to my hospital and while she was talking to her friend I caught her a few times looking at me. We like to prank each other now. I didn't think these things to mean anything but I was confused a bit. Recently she has started playfully hitting me. I'm here to ask, has her feelings changed? Or is this how girls act towards close guy friends. I should point out recently when we went to the station together she mentioned how a shop we went passed only hires attractive people and I accidently slipped out how she was more attractive than them. I wouldn't say she blushed but she let out a "awwwwww" if you know what I mean. I also don't want Ann to ask her for me because I don't want this to get back to her
The obvious is at play here. Girls don't tell the truth between themselves when there's a man they may both be interested in. For instance, why should Ann get involved - has she no life or a job to be focussing on. Ann doesn't deserve to know your new colleagues business.
I would suggest you ignore Ann's comments as Ann may also have an agenda. She may be upset that you never noticed her or asked her on a date. Why does this new girl get all the attention?
Keep your business discreet with new girl. New girl likes you and is making this obvious. You have to act on this subtly i. e. asking her to join you some place like a coffee shop where others are not around. Or give her your number to catch up on some "work." New girl likes you, it's 99.9% certain.
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Yes they have changed.
Sounds like she does like you
Have a conversation with him
Sure why not
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