She is my colleague at my new work place (3 months), and I'm uncertain if she has any feelings other than enjoying working with me. I'm not looking for a relationship right now, but I wouldn't turn one away. I do like her, and find her attractive, but I'd be happy just to have a good friend. What do you think based on what I've noticed? Is she flirting or being friendly?
Flirty?:
- We share a lot of inside jokes, linked to funny or annoying things that have happened
- She will complain to me about work, rude customers, a couple of colleagues that are frustrating etc
- Teasing each other whenever we do something stupid
- End up doing a lot of tasks together
- When we are carrying something between us, she will often try to lightly hit me with it, or change speeds to throw me off. It's all a game
- Smiles a lot
- Sometimes we make eye contact for longer then I have ever held with anyone else
- She "grrrrr's" at me, playfully
- My tinder profile has been brought up twice in conversation
- She told me about one of our colleagues trying ask personal questions and she didn't like it because she didn't feel close to them. When I asked if I could ask personal questions, she said I could.
- Told me I was her favourite colleague, when normally we say we hate each other
- Sometimes does/says something then gets embarrassed and says she doesn't know why she did it
- We bicker a lot, but it's always light hearted
Friendly?:
- She has high energy with everyone, not just me.
- Never tried to text me, or even hang around after work to talk
- I've noticed that if you catch her off guard, she looks a little lost/upset. I'm thinking her normal bubbly self is to compensate/hide that.
- There's little to no physical contact
- Not really commented on my appearance or personality
- I once complimented her looks as she was talking badly about herself, and she didn't respond positively exactly.
Bless your heart if you made it this far, thank you for reading.
Flirty?:
- We share a lot of inside jokes, linked to funny or annoying things that have happened
- She will complain to me about work, rude customers, a couple of colleagues that are frustrating etc
- Teasing each other whenever we do something stupid
- End up doing a lot of tasks together
- When we are carrying something between us, she will often try to lightly hit me with it, or change speeds to throw me off. It's all a game
- Smiles a lot
- Sometimes we make eye contact for longer then I have ever held with anyone else
- She "grrrrr's" at me, playfully
- My tinder profile has been brought up twice in conversation
- She told me about one of our colleagues trying ask personal questions and she didn't like it because she didn't feel close to them. When I asked if I could ask personal questions, she said I could.
- Told me I was her favourite colleague, when normally we say we hate each other
- Sometimes does/says something then gets embarrassed and says she doesn't know why she did it
- We bicker a lot, but it's always light hearted
Friendly?:
- She has high energy with everyone, not just me.
- Never tried to text me, or even hang around after work to talk
- I've noticed that if you catch her off guard, she looks a little lost/upset. I'm thinking her normal bubbly self is to compensate/hide that.
- There's little to no physical contact
- Not really commented on my appearance or personality
- I once complimented her looks as she was talking badly about herself, and she didn't respond positively exactly.
Bless your heart if you made it this far, thank you for reading.
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