Friends or more?

[Anonymous]

Been seeing this guy regularly for about 5 months. We spend a lot of time together and his behavior suggests more than friends. We talk all day everyday. I spend 2-3 nights a week at his house NOTHING PHYSICAL HAPPENS and the other nights he works. He gets jealous when he sees me talk to other guys. I've met some of his friends and he's invited me to work events. I asked him where we stood because of mixed signals and he said he's in a weird head space and focusing on other parts of his life and we are friends for now which is an important anyway in a relationship. He continues to ask me to hang out and do things. We get along great and we started as casual sex but now we spend more time together and nothing happens now. When we first started hooking up he said he liked me, the sex was good, and wanted to see where things go. I'm just really confused.

[Guy13]

This guy has been hurt deeply. So, started as casual sex and moved into a watch-see if she's a hoe... withdrawals from sex? for whatever reason but "acts like serious dating married-like". Is this right?

He has demons and I don't know how you are going to find them out... but you need to know... but don't ask... he'll tell you when he feels like he's "got it straight". I think he is a Man now... might have been a boy last time around with other relationship.

I do not see any option but to see the best of it and him... Even if it turns out he's lying like a dog and juggling all kinds of things you don't know about. If you are "proper" attitude (not sudden bat shit crazy episodes) THEN he will eventually... out of Want and Love OR Guilt and Shame come fully clean. I'm hoping he is indeed a Man...

[Avicenna]

You need to tell him what you want. If a guy can have sex with you without committing to a relationship, he‘ll be happy to do that.

[Asker]

Thats the thing though, we don't anymore but act more like a relationship now than we did when we were.

[Avicenna]

But what exactly do you want from him?

[torn_downosprey]

I suggest you make a first move if you want to be more. Guys tend to get caught in loops of wondering if you recipricate, so not only would you be killing that doubt you'd also initiate something.

[Anonymous]

He lost interest in you sexually.

[MyDreamsAreNotDead]

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