Just friends or more than friends?

Question

Have a cuddle date planned on Monday with a girl I've been seeing, and we only just broke the physical touch barrier just over a week ago, so things feel like they're moving good but a little fast. She initiated it (and every time since), and it's just a little strange how fast we're moving physically because everything else about us together is moving slowly. I should also say that I don't want to have sex with her, I told her, and it's mutual. (Wait til marriage types)

Saw her yesterday, and I know she likes naps so I suggested that we could take a nap together when I get to her place and she said yes (which surprised me honestly). She told me how excited she is for this cuddle date, and especially about the nap.

Part of me is afraid I'm in the friendzone... but all this physical intimacy doesn't seem like something a girl would do with a guy she was just friends with. She's told me that she hasn't done any of this since her last relationship, and I know she's got a good amount of guy friends, so this is something only between her and I. Like, we cuddled for a bit this past week, and she asked me to lay on top of her, in a way that my head was on her boobs which feels super close for just friends. She said this position was her favorite.

Am I coping or are these good signs that we're moving forward together?

Oliverlogan263 · Accepted Answer

Dude, this sounds like some major overthinking going on haha. From everything you described, this girl is definitely into you in a more than friends way. I mean c'mon - initiating cuddles, asking you to nap together, saying you laying on her is her favorite position? 100% couple stuff, no question about it.

A lot of girls wouldn't be that physically intimate with a guy they just saw as a buddy. And saying she hasn't done any of this since her last relationship shows she's saving it for someone special. Props to you guys for waiting too, that's dope.

I'd try to relax and not stress yourself out over where you "stand." Clearly y'all vibe on a deeper level. Keep doing your thing, see where it leads naturally. Enjoy that cuddle sesh, dude - sounds like you hit the jackpot! Let yourself be happy. You two got this.