My wife is obsessed with concerts and always wants to go to the front row and meet the artists. Is it wrong to be jealous?

[Anonymous]

The only reason why im jealous is because in the past she's hooked up with celebrities before. I know it was before me and whatever but she always needs to be at the front. Its like an obsession for her but she does have bpd so that can be it aswell I don't know just wondering if my freak out is crazy

[Chris_8036]

Well, Groupies are a real thing. I've watched a lot of interviews with different groups where they've discussed women coming on the tour bus to "Meet" the performers, (Basically have sex) while their husbands or boyfriends stand outside waiting like fools.
Do with that information what you will, but if it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, and acts like a duck, she probably willing to hook up with a star if she gets the opportunity again.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Yet you married her knowing all of this? I'm sorry fella, but you can't now suddenly say you're jealous of it.

[Asker]

My bad were not married but we have been together for a long time

[Asker]

Cuz she trys to tell me that being i the front means you know all the words to the song and you huge fan or some shit like that and she can't enjoy it if she not at the front and needs to feel the music..

[TommyMountainFigure]

But the point still remains. You dated her knowing all of this, and she tells you she no longer hooks up with them.. right? You can't suddenly stop believing her just because you're together now

[TommyMountainFigure]

Let me try and explain to you how it works man to man.. k? I got a date with a catwalk model, she's gorgeous. After a few months I admit I did start to get jealous even though I never told her about it.. Someone gave me some VERY good advice.. She chose to be with you out of everybody she could of chosen. You never wanted her to stop being a model when you met did you.. I said no.. then he hit me with it. has she ever given reason to make you jealous? I said no.. then he said work it out buddy or you will lose her. . She later told me the thing she loves so much about me is I don't judge her I don't want her to be anything other than who she is.. I never forgot it and we are still together today.. and I no longer get jealous because I have no reason to.. she idolises me.. and I her.. and if you take that same advice? I think you'll find yourselves in a very happy relationship that will last a long time too.

[Asker]

Wooow thanks a lot i never looked at it like that i appreciate you man. And she does tell me if guys hit on her and she always says she feels better when im with her so no one will approach her

[Asker]

I just wanted to know why she has the need to do that is all but your right why worry when she gave me nothing to worry about

[TommyMountainFigure]

Exactly.. let her be who she wants and she'll never want anyone else.

[In_Trance]

Jealous of what?

[Asker]

Her idolizing and obsessing over other men

[Asker]

Me and you both know celebrities can fuck anyone they want at anytime most likely

[In_Trance]

If its that much of an issue I do know why you're still with her

[Asker]

Yea your right