Is it okay to feel jealous of a partners celebrity crush?

[Anonymous]

Pictured: Zoe Kravitz in The Batman

Pictured: Chris Hemsworth in Thor Ragnarok

Thoughts on getting a teensy bit jealous when a partners celebrity crush is shown on screen or comes up in conversation?

I for one did not think i'd be jealous at all but so when my partner mentioned his celebrity crush to be Zoe Kravitz I had said "Oh yea, she's very hot", and he agreed. Then I started to feel a little jealous because she is so extremely stunning and I look nothing like her. It's silly to have a conversation about this with him because it will probably be something I get over in a couple days but if anyone has any advice on how to calm that twinge of jealousy, it's appreciated.

Mostly just interested to read everyones opinions!

[Guy__]

They aren't even real people, just notice and all this madness fades!

I mean they are actors! Movies are not only edited, the people in them do all sorts of shit you won't like in real life.

Like the male actors are pumped with roids 90% of the time and oftentimes don't workout or even have good diets.
Actresses are often biological males that are under 10% body fat which is unhealthy for real females. Some like Jessica Alba confessed it on camera. I tell you most of the top female celebrities aren't real females.

[Asker]

Very true but It's hard when the expectations of being attractive stem from these 'not real people'.

[Guy__]

It doesn't matter, the female models have bone structure of biological males... it may not seem this way to you, but men with optimal testosterone levels find them gay and real females like you attractive.

[Asker]

I mean.. I have a Kendal Jenner type body. I'm tall and thin naturally but fit because I work out. I'm not sure I understand this reply properly?

[Guy__]

Literally you will never ever have a kendall jenner body because it's a biological man. A tranny. And that's good because I'd be repulsed by a male bone structure on a girl.

[Guy__]

A lot of details on the face, things like femur length and lumbar curve are very different on females than on males.

[Birdlegs]

You lost me on the actress’s being biological makes😭 Kendall Jenner is 100% female she’s been famous since she was a child. Many models have masculine bone structures true but they are still very much females. Nobody thinks being attracted to models is gay😭

[Guy__]

Apparently tens of thousands of people have the same view as me if you search "transvestigations" but that's bullshit if you don't do your own thinking and studying anatomy. Go on telling me jenifer Aniston is a female... or michelle Obama who admitted to be trans

[Guy__]

[Guy__]

[Asker]

Perhaps the dumbest thing I've read all day.

[Guy__]

Did you view the images?

[Birdlegs]

We viewed the images and I agree with the asker ‘Twas the dumbest thing I’ve read in a while

[Guy__]

That's ok. The most common response.

[Guy__]

[Guy__]

Jessica alba though with an Adam's apple, is clearly the most feminine of the three... whose face I find bearable.
But admits to being a man

[Guy__]

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=uy6E8-KzJj8

[Guy__]

Don't judge me by the rest of the content on the channel, it is full of shit with some things. Just the first In the search result of jessica alba.

[Birdlegs]

Are you genuinely serious? I don’t even have an Adam’s apple does that make me biologically female? She’s clearly being sarcastic the question was what would surprise people about her and her answer would be something that would surprise people. It clearly isn’t a serious confession especially since she’s on a random Comic Con panel😭

[Guy__]

Alright, I'll find another one

[Guy__]

If it wasn't enough her serious face and the nod... the megan fox as I mentioned before.

[Guy__]

m.youtube.com/watch

[Guy__]

Sorry set the time to 0 seconds

[Guy__]

It was years that I investigated this...

One woman, she was a celebrity trainer, if you care she had multiple masters degrees so she knows what she talks about. She quit her job in 2017 and started posting youtibe videos on this. Like 5 channels were taken down with no warnings. Last time I checked, she sold a mansion she had for real cheap saying she didn't need it anyway and I think she turned Christian (as Christians talk about evil going on in Hollywood, and there clearly is pedophilia etc) I remember she talked about how crazy it feels to be in the changeroom right there with them. She even posted some photos of herself with the celebrities...

She went by "Michelle xx" as the x chromosome of a biological female.

[Guy__]

Just searched YouTube and here's the video that popped up and that's her voice https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=EKDF2g8faH0
She talks about another guy who'se been talking about this same thing for years. He had a sense of humor I remember.
In case you don't know, klaus Schwab said "you'll own nothing and be happy" and they mock it in this video, because the billionaires do everything to shut down natural farmers and replace it with fake meat.

[OddBeMe]

So’s thing to remember: their crush is with a media perception of the celeb. Put the person in front of them without photoshop, makeup, on a bad skin day, and see how fast they’ll run back to you.

It’s rare for me to compliment grocery store tabloids. And while I find it disgusting to harass celebrities, the photos of cellulite and wrinkles does provide a backdrop to the perfection of Vogue covers.

[Sincerly_KittyCat]

I think it is weird to bring up any sort of crush to or infront of your partner. Its a bit disrespectful unless they asked to know or if they are okay with it. Different people have different boundaries and its okay to have some type of feeling about it if thats your boundary.

[DermalPunch]

I was with a guy who was beyond obsessed with Beyoncé. He would flat out say I could never be perfect like her and so on. It was really annoying.

[UniquelyBasic]

Nahh, its just a little crush. If they started writing fan fiction of them doing sexual things then I would have a problem.

[Asker]

Yeah this is what I tell myself but I guess I'm comparing. Bad habit.

[Jimmyl33]

Guys are innately attracted to many females, especially beautiful women. That doesn't mean he is unsatisfied with you or likes you any less just because he can appreciate the beauty of another woman. Jealousy is natural but once you let go of it and feel comfortable with who you are and what you have to offer, you are instantly more attractive.

[Anonymous]

No. They are crushing on a fantasy. If they actually dated that person they would soon realize the fantasy version of them is completely different than the real human that they are. I remember Adam Levine saying this.

[Pyrofox]

Maybe adopt their celebrity crushes looks once in a while.

[Asker]

How so when we have completely different features?

[Pyrofox]

Hair style and like eye liner could be a start. Just emulate the look.

[Asker]

Oh, that's interesting advice! I suppose I could try that sometime.

[Msputiton]

No. I don't think it's mentally healthy to be jealous of anyone or anything.
That shit seems like it will way on ya.

[Twalli]

I would only have an issue if she had a may to actually meet her crush. Like if she was somewhat famous and may meet her crush at an awards show or such. If she won't meet him, I don't particularly care.

[TommyMountainFigure]

That is just an immature reaction. You'll grow out of it as you get older.

[kinggeorge007]

They are called celebrity crushes for a reason. It's nothing to make a fuss about. (It goes same for both genders)

[KrakenAttackin]

To moan and groan when your celebrity crush is on TV is disrespectful to your real relationship. What if your man did this when a hot woman appeared on TV?

[altaboy]

The next time you feel that way, smile to yourself and say, "ha! Like that's ever going to happen!"

You'll feel better.

[EdwinLivingston_]

If my partner have a celebrity crush, u would ask her to grow up

[EdwinLivingston_]

I would*

[SpaceGalaxy]

as long as he isn't doing you in bed while thinking of her

[JoyGirl]

It is ok, but don’t over do it…lol

[Subarugirl]

I mean it's a sign of insecurity

[LavLavLuv]

I think it’s immature

[dolemite89]

yes it’s silly 😂 it’s just a fantasy.

[Anonymous]

No. It's quite silly.

[sheikalana]

That's immature.

[crmoore]

It's perfectly okay

[Iron_Man]

Yes I would be