I had a friends with benefits. He was a very nice person. We talked for 3 weeks only. The first time we went out we did it and it was very sweet and passionate like the other times we did it. In the second time going out I started to notice that he started to get jealous of me asking me where I was and to send pictures. He told me about his trust issues so I said okay imma send you pictures of where I am at but we are not in a relationship and I’m not doing it every single time. I’m just doing it so you can feel more comfortable and trust me more. When I am with someone I am only with that person. I don’t like to be with multiple partners that not my style. The third time we went out was great we cuddled and did it and cuddled more I think he is very nice. The thing is I just left a relationship and I am not ready to get into another one and I let him know that Before we went out. In my head he was aware of it. After I went home after the 3 time seeing him he called me and started to demand to see my phone and see who I am talking with one by one. I do have other males on my phone but while I was with him I was only doing sexual stuff with him. I use to have an old friends with benefits that texts me sexually joking sometimes and I have other male friends that are very respectful just friendship. I showed him the texts in a attemp to be clear even if he is not my boyfriend but just to make him feel better and he kept on insisting that I had a sex with someone else. A couple days later he said are you going to take this seriously and I said no because I just left a relationship and I asked him can’t we just be normal friends then he’s like I don’t wanna be frineds and blocked me. Why did he block me how was a mean to him? And is this the dynamic of friends with benefits?
Help advice please :(?
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Well by the seem of things he likes you a lot more than he is a admitting or it turned into something else from him but you don’t feel that way towards him I can’t say how you girls or women think about sex or it’s fine for you but he don’t feel that same way…
You need to stop it with him or it’s going to get messy
Yes I did but because he is a nice person I thought we could be normal friends. He doesn’t need to have sex with me but why block me and cut me off when I tried to be his friend? ☹️
I say because he getting feels for you and he wants more and he sees other male friends has a threat
Probably shouldn’t be passionate with a friends with benefits. It’s more like a work out
He was so passionate so so passionate. But why block me? I didn’t “cheat” on him I was only doing this with home but my old friends with benefits is a nice guy we talk normal stuff and sometimes he’ll make a sexual joke
He obviously wanted different things
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Lol he is cunt...
He developed feelings for you
But why block me? Couldn’t t he just be my friend:( like a normal friend
Lol he loves you so i don't think he like to share you with otters.
Dude why bother?
Lol even you're acting like his girlfriend 😜
Because I bond easy I attach easily he was super nice I’m just trying to see if I did anything wrong
Lol stop this friends with benefits make him your boyfriend. Problem solved
Last question I promise ☹️ what if you didn’t feel the alarm with that person. Don’t you just date people you feel the spark with?
(1) i m fuckboy I don't date.
(2) if you're doing friends with benefits n he get jealous because you're talking to other male friends than its a huge red flag..
If you're not clicking than don't date
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You know what else he did that kinda scared me. Like I’m very discreet and embarrassing to be horny and doing this kinda stuff when I am not in a relationship at Least for me I don’t care about other People doing it just me. He went on my insta and texted my old friends with benefits about to ask if he fucked me or not. It makes me feel like a player I’m not that type of person
It doesn’t let me but I appreciate your help a lot ❤️