I think there is a misunderstanding.. people who cheat.. dont love the other.. what they love is the relationship. when they cheat.. they just looking to upgrade The person they cheat on is the only optional replaceable thing in the relationship.. what they really love is the relationship, it's perks and benefits.. not the other person in it. IF someone cheats on you.. you MIGHT give them a second chance.. cus everyone makes mistakes.. and when they realize hte pain they see in you after they get caught.. that might make them realize what they had.. and truly change.. and try to make up for it hte rest of their lives.. that is possible.. but 2nd time cheaters.. run.. get away and find someone who would give up EVERYTHING a relationship offers.. except the one thing that matters.. YOU!.. careful.. if you get in a relationship.. that they and you are there for the right reasons. that the center of hte univers is that person and yourself.. not stuff.. or convienience.. or sex.. but YOU.. and your soul mate. so men cheat.. women cheat.. cus they love the relationship. . thats why they are with you.. but the one thing they dont mind chaging out or upgrading is who the other person is in the relationship. beauty.. wealth.. etc attract FLYS.. be wary of that.. flys just want sugar.. and will go anywhere to get it. make sure there is substance under your sugar.. make sure they and you.. are in the relationship for the right reasons.. if you get sick.. ill.. bankrupt.. crippled.. will that person still be there for YOU.. csu YOU matter.. not your job. income sex appeal house car.. income etc.. but YOU..
Because most guys are territorial , once he falls for a girl and wins her heart he feels she is his now and no one else’s , why he is cheating on her is because he is a piece of shit and he has a lot of insecurities , most People that cheat in general have insecurities, they feel if they cheat on their partners then they have a back up plan if their partner cheats on them they don’t trust their partners because they are looking at love the wrong way , they are fighting their own insecurities , so a cheater thinks they are 1 step over their partner if they cheat on them , don’t get me wrong people cheat for other reasons as well , but usually a cheater that still wants to be with their current partner will cheat because they are insecure and don’t really value themselves , that they need acceptance from someone else to make themselves feel better about themselves. Most people get into relationships not really knowing what it means to be in a relationship, They feel their partner will 1 day cheat on them , so those are the people that shouldn’t be getting into relationships period because the reality of it , how could you be happy in a relationship if you are worried that your partner is going to cheat on you? So it’s sad to say that most people don’t know what love means and what a relationship means? You can only guide someone to stay by your side , Love grows when you both sacrifice for each other and make each other your number 1 priority. If your partner chooses to walk away let them go , we can’t force someone to love us , So if you’re in a relationship and your partner cheats on you and tries to stay with you , that just shows they don’t really value you because they don’t really value themselves , you are best to dump his ass and move on , if you take him back he will cheat again
This is about to be the top answer right here.
dudes are dogs. A guy can cheat with a girl and have 0% of the type of love he gives to the girlfriend. there are the girls we would just sleep with for a cheap thrill and there is the one girl we want to sleep next to and fall asleep with everyday. That girl you sleep with plus love to go on down on just because he loves her and he looks forward to it That girl is wifey material. That no makeup beautiful. if he says you don't need it enough times it becomes an argument about your ignorance to see it yourself - that's a sign he loves you.
I literally am attracted and would have sex with many girls if opportunity came. If the sturgeon bites, i' have to reel it in or get mad I never tried when having the chance, mad to not collect it on the stat sheet, and i dint think that is right, but we are wired to be this way. (By the way , the super fine ass dimes wit the make up, we will never wife them because we either don't trust them or too insecure and scare to lose them. We looking for the high 7's 8's. when it comes to that real love.)
On the other hand., when girls cheat , the side nigga is threatening to take your position. When that happens, men will act crazy. it is torture. We keep thinking about who you already sleeping with and sleeping next to with. That why their is a respectable time duration that a girl should wait before going publi. The the thought or knowledge or sight of another dude smashing your girl and she is doing everything you taught her or she knows you like wit him, and on top of that, she is loving it. I swear, i'll be to ready cry my ass off a tall rooftop. wit probably going to end up replacing you. That is the fastest way to destroy a man,.. it is hard to rebuilt from a girl cheatingwe don't get rebounds lined up ready.
anyway
guys cheat for the number, for the tale, but that inst love
girls cheat with the guy she really wants to be with.
the guru.
1) The term "cheating" is erroneous and stupid, and no one should use it.
2) *We* are not *your* sexual property-- *you* are *our* sexual property. This doesn't go both ways. Humans are animals.
It's not just men that cheat but women too. And the getting jealous when the cheater's SO gets hit on is universal among cheaters. I think it's because in spite of knowing that cheating is wrong they do it anyway and since they cheat they think everyone else does too. So when they see someone giving their SO attention it makes them jealous because they think that their SO will cheat on them
Because they want to own her and have exclusive sexual rights to her. Their fear is when she gets emotionally invested in another guy she will leave.
Because evolution. Mate guarding behavior is incredibly useful to help avoid getting cuckolded and wasting energy raising another mans genetic offspring.
But it also reproductive pragmatic to sleep with as many women as you can. Sperm is cheap, and the more children you have the more genetically successful you are.
It's an evelutionary thing, guys are hardwired by evolution to spread their seed as much as possible (hence the cheating) and are wired to make sure that their seed is the only one that survives (hence the jealousy)
Most people would do that were not all the same you NOOB! I won't do that. I meant what I said and I said what I meant. Did you get stabbed in your neck and your programming is failing or something
Your confusion is astounding. And assumptive.
You're dealing with BOYZ, amI right?
Those who cheat are under the general assumption that pussy is easy to get and have the same opinion of their girlfriend.
Because they like the woman. I don't see why that's hard to get.
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