- A lot of women on bumble are in their 30's. And it is mostly filled with these "high career" women who like to show off their success and think they are top tier females just for having a job.
-So being a woman in her 30's, she has had tons of dating experience and she basically gets pickier and pickier as she gets older and she analyzing dudes trying to identify red flags. Thus, If a male reminds her of her ex in anyway she will choose to not continue seeing him. The result being that most of the dudes she goes out with are not going to be good enough for her and she stops seeing them. - A lot of women in there 30's are addicted to Netflix shows and soap operas and tv gives them the idea that the dating world is filled with a lot of single men who fulfil the 6,6,6 criteria (6 feet tall or higher, makes at least 6 figure, has 6 pack abs).
- Due to female nature of hypergamy for them to consider a guy their dream guy, he has to make more money than her. However, said male is not going to want to commit to a woman in her 30's. And women can't accept the fact that when their age increases that their overall value in dating goes down. Women try to convince these men that they are better prospect than younger women by using their career and telling guys if they get with her, they will be able to combine there finances (u have seen this on GAG) rather than him only taking on the financial burden alone.
- For those that do end up getting the dream man, they will go out on several dates with him and brag to their female friend that they found the man of their dream. However, after sex and several weeks dating, he goes no contact on her or messages her stating he wants to see other people. - So women go back and date a bunch of average guys for a year or two and then when they finally get their "Dream guy" again they come off bumble only to come back on it 3 weeks-1 month later after being pump and dumped.
-So being a woman in her 30's, she has had tons of dating experience and she basically gets pickier and pickier as she gets older and she analyzing dudes trying to identify red flags. Thus, If a male reminds her of her ex in anyway she will choose to not continue seeing him. The result being that most of the dudes she goes out with are not going to be good enough for her and she stops seeing them. - A lot of women in there 30's are addicted to Netflix shows and soap operas and tv gives them the idea that the dating world is filled with a lot of single men who fulfil the 6,6,6 criteria (6 feet tall or higher, makes at least 6 figure, has 6 pack abs).
- Due to female nature of hypergamy for them to consider a guy their dream guy, he has to make more money than her. However, said male is not going to want to commit to a woman in her 30's. And women can't accept the fact that when their age increases that their overall value in dating goes down. Women try to convince these men that they are better prospect than younger women by using their career and telling guys if they get with her, they will be able to combine there finances (u have seen this on GAG) rather than him only taking on the financial burden alone.
- For those that do end up getting the dream man, they will go out on several dates with him and brag to their female friend that they found the man of their dream. However, after sex and several weeks dating, he goes no contact on her or messages her stating he wants to see other people. - So women go back and date a bunch of average guys for a year or two and then when they finally get their "Dream guy" again they come off bumble only to come back on it 3 weeks-1 month later after being pump and dumped.
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Real life example of the above cycle in the first couple minutes of the video.
https://youtu.be/YVxTa65dqr8
https://youtu.be/YVxTa65dqr8
