What do you think of "good girls"?

[Puppystarfish23]

All my life I've been seen as a "good girl"

It's gets me out of so much trouble because people underestimate me and see me as sweet and innocent but at the same time it makes me a target for a lot of bullying and gaslighting. People think if they push me around I won't do or say anything and act shocked when I do and try and patronise me.

a lot of people believe I'm younger than I am. When I tell them I'm 24 they are always shocked. Im 5ft and have a baby face. It can be annoying at times because everyone thinks they can treat me like a baby.

[Loth2770]

If it’s your personality, then there’s nothing wrong with it. If people are messing with you because of how they perceive you, I would try acting a little more confident to change how people see you to an extent. You can be confident while still being sweet and kind to others. It’s possible to have the best of both worlds; they aren’t mutually exclusive.

[Ragnar2000]

You don't have to change anything about yourself to please others. Ignore the bullies and going forward is only way I guess. If I've learned something from school/colleges, it's that bullying cannot be stopped. It runs through the blood of some shit people.
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Maybe you can be a bit more bolder and confident, getting some friends who has got your back, who'll support you in your worst moments.

[anon1903]

Good girls usually means you'd suck up to society and men. I'd rather be a slacker than a good girl. Bad girls may be overrated, but good ones are internally sad as they cater to societal expectations of goodness.

[SlothySlob]

I don't really understand. What do you mean by "good girl"?

[Puppystarfish23]

A female that's seen as obedient and can do no wrong

[SlothySlob]

If I were to go by that explanation I'd have to say that they don't exist.
Do you mean "can do no wrong" in the sense that, she's too dumb to be held accountable?

[Puppystarfish23]

Trust me that's how i feel people perceive me as at times but no. Have you ever heard the term "innocent white women"

[SlothySlob]

I'll be honest, no I have not. But I believe I've heard similar or with equal intent.

[hyperben]

"good girls" are the best, "bad girls" rarely live up to their hype

[Shy_Steve]

I find Good Girls Attractive usually.

I do know how you feel though, Because I'm the Youngest in my Family so I usually don't get listened to by them.

[SiberFox]

I'd like to have my own Good girl one day, thats what I think

[loveslongnails]

I love a good girl.
I also love a bad girl.
Hmmm... guess I love girls. LOL

[crmoore]

I find it to be endearing

[Wise4myage]

Good girls can be sneaky.