What do "bad boys" think about the "good girls"?

[Anonymous]

Do bad boys only go for the "bad girls"? Would they consider being with a really good girl they already know and respect? Is it attractive for some girl to be so innocent and pure whilst they've done so much or is it a turn off? Would they even care enough to think about it?

[WODSE]

I really have something like this going on in my life , i wouldn't call myself a bad boy it just depends on how you see it, maybe from your point of view im bad wich can be true who knows , but i wouldn't say a bad guy only goes for "bad girls" most of the time its just what they are used to, its the environment they are inserted in, they dont know anything else , when you only know hoes you are likely to try to get one that is less of a hoe, dont like using this word but yeah, but sometimes you just happen to find yourself talking to this really smart and kind girl that you never noticed around , but somehow you realise that you get along really well even tho you are so different from eachother and come from really different "worlds" its not like we wake up and be like "oh shit let me find me a good girl" most of the time it just happens and they make us wanna be a better guy even tho we dont like changing ourselves doesn't mean we can't improve as a man.

[Asker]

To me it just seems like the bad boys I know act like they don't give a fuck about anyone but themselves unless they think they're gonna get some- so would it be rare for a bad boy to even give the good girl the time of day?

[WODSE]

In my opinion , those "bad boys" you know are just pretending to be such and playing tough most likely because they probably were hurt and live by that "girls like assholes" stereotype, but awnsering your question, id say it isn't rare but if he indeed is a "bad" guy he will tell you straight up what is going on and let you be the one to choose wether or not you wanna stay around or not, he will be a bit cold at times and too straight up probably because he might been through some tough times , he will enjoy your company tho he might not go around showing off to everybody that you guys get along he might even wanna try to keep it between you guys but he will indeed enjoy your company , if you think he is worth it and he likes you even tho he might play hard dont give up but dont be all over him as well keep im guessing and dont let him think he has you, he won't want to lose you because he will know that you see something in him that most girls dont .

[Asker]

That's actually very very helpful and feels most true to case. He definitely acts cool in public as if we're not friends but we actually do get along. That's a typical thing? Thing is I told him I had feelings for him but was confused bc of mixed messages and everything. He was extremely sincere in response to me and said he didn't realize he was doing that but really wants to make sure he keeps me as a friend. I've been giving us distance.

[WODSE]

ouch he used the F word, but yeah it is kinda typical there's 2 reasons for it and only 1 of them might be the case , he can be ashamed that he fell for you and his friends probably gonna call him soft and be like "dude what do you see in this girl" he might not want that to happen or he just might not want people to get in between you guys and start trying to ruin what you have going on, if some people found out they might go around saying bad shit like "he is playing her" "she is dumb asf" he might not want this , its good that you gave him some distance , this gonna help him understand if he really wants you to be his girl or just a friend , dont move too fast stuff like this takes time.

[Asker]

He's so confusing. I'm definitely way more hung up on this than I probably should be and definitely more than he is, but I don't understand. After he responded, I replied to him (this was a week ago) and he still hasn't opened it! He hasn't approached me at all and we haven't talked to eachother the times we've seen eachother- just lots of eye contact here and there. He makes me feel like he doesn't even care but his response to my letter was really caring and he was really respectful and acted like he really valued our friendship... but doesn't talk to me and hasn't even opened my last reply. I want to move on but it's so hard bc he's so uncommunicative! I don't want to wait for nothing bc maybe he'll never open it and never truly act friendly again. But I also love him, despite myself, & am hesitant to move on from him if he really does care...

[Anonymous]

Most girls go for jerks so your on the right track if thats what your in to. According to many girls who date them they do the most bragging and have the least amount of ability. Sexual ability, intellectual ability and social ability. For some reason American women worship these guys, They end up miserable, but go for them in a big way. The good news is there are plenty of them and they're always looking for the next girl. You should have no problem finding them or dating them. They can usually be found in pool halls, garbage dumps, cat houses and city parks (children's section). They are easy to approach and most commonly do the approaching. Their preferred scent is "Evening Cesspool". Further details can be found in the 1996 Trailer Trash Act. Good luck and good sewage.

[Asker]

To put it plainly- this guy in particular is highly intelligent, has a good sense of humor, and a kind heart behind his bad guy exterior. That is what attracts me- not his douchey side. Of course I wouldn't actually go for someone who wouldn't respect me enough but he has this deep, personal side he doesn't show many people.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, you and about 10 million other girls believe the exact same thing. That is until they visit the ER or the morge

[Opinion Owner]

morgue

[Asker]

The ER or Morgue?

[Opinion Owner]

THat is where most girls like you end up. I'm just going by experience. I have one sister who was like you. She is now a "man hater" (in her 30's). My other sister was killed by her "bad boy" boyfriend 3 years ago.

[Asker]

What did the guys do?

[Opinion Owner]

The list is too long. I have one sister in deep psychotherapy and another in her grave.

[HurrDurrDurr]

I am not a bad boy, but from my experience, the "bad boy" wonders how the hell he got with her in the first place. The "bad guy" that I was dating kept saying that he didn't deserve me.
I didn't understand why he kept saying that, until now.
So, I think that bad boys genuinely like good girls, but don't feel that they deserve good girls, or that when a good girl falls for them, they're foolish because they know that they can do better than them.

[SmokemJay]

Did he cheat on you or something?

[HurrDurrDurr]

He did.

[WODSE]

stay strong sweetie , at least he was somewhat honest even tho not 100%, not saying what he did was right but at least you can learn from this and get better as a woman, and probably there were some great memories , so keep those and the bad ones as lessons for the next guy.

[lostgirl_searching]

I have 2 friends that are "bad boys" and their girlfriends are good girls. My boyfriend is like a bad boy and he said he's not into wild girls because some can't be trusted and they like to start unnecessary drama. He likes that I'm loyal and faithful knowing that while he's at work he can work instead of worrying.

[Anonymous]

Actual bad boys? They usually don't wanna mess with goid gals. They want a bad bitch who will smoke, snort, drink and fight. Cuz nobody ride will tolerate their shit.

Source: Two cousins in prison

[Opinion Owner]

*nobody else

[pavlove]

I think a lot of bad boys probably get bored of good girls. I mean even if a good girl does have sex with a bad boy and i feel like most will eventually. why would a guy who's getting sex want to wait around especially when he doesn't share her values? I imagine that's why a lot of female fantasy you find on like wattpad is a badboy love story where the bad boy is an ahole but for some reason carries on this long intense back and forth relationship with this ONE girl. it's a fantasy it doesn't happen often

[MrOracle]

Bad Boys typically don't respect girls AT ALL - not good girls or bad girls. That's part of what makes them Bad Boys. All they care about is what they can get from girls - though some DO take pleasure in "corrupting" good girls. Others just find good girls boring - especially if they have a lot of experience themselves.

[Kolya]

how about do "bad girls" go for "good guys" ? bad boys use bad girls but dont last long or are just one-fuck only... if a girl was bad and changed her ways, that is smt else, but pretending to be innocent and pure while being a slut or worse... that is disgusting

[Asker]

I meant while the guy has done so much and the girls hasn't and genuinely is a really good girl

[Kolya]

if she is a genuine good girl and that guy has done "many", she should be wise to avoid him because he will not care about a good girl, just wants a girl doesn't care which and how and who, for a certain we-know-what reason not because of her goodness... i've seen girls "corrupted" and felt seriously bad because they could have done better

[Asker]

That's what I don't understand! How is it possible for a guy to get with many women and flirt with them and make them think he likes him and for him to have no feelings for any of them? How is it possible to remove all feelings? I would NEVER be able to do that! Not bc it would go against my morals but because I physically couldn't be involved with a bunch of guys and not have any feelings or care for them!

[Kolya]

that is... a little complicated to explain, those are weak minded, teenage girls who are constantly bombarded with "sex" from everywhere and have the impression they must do it with the guy who has most experience, and fall prey easily especially if the guy knows his way with words, in short if you dont stand for something you fall for anything, you must have a powerful personality to not fall for such cheap tricks, but most guys dont care as long as they get to fuck a girl, here in Romania in my high-school years made 4 girls pregnant and he was still proud of it while the girls were expelled... that is.. sickening

[Kolya]

*a guy made... sorry for typing

[Asker]

But how is the GUY able to have sex and flirt and everything without having feelings for them?

[Kolya]

sociopath... no feeling, lack of responsability, does not care for others (lack of empathy), erratic behaviour

[Asker]

So maybe all fuckbois are sociopaths? Lol

[Kolya]

read in many places there are more fucking many sociopaths in society than you expect, it may be an explanation, but not ALL of them, they just lack respect for females, think of them as "things" not beings, isn't rap music repeating the same "mah bitches work day'n'ight" or something like that i dont listen to that crap but my point is if you were a kid, and your father or someone close told you (as they told me),"get as many girls as possible because you are boy"... but i did not become a disgusting prick, when you are a kid everything sticks to you, including sexual irresponsibility

[Anonymous]

1 Easy pussy 2 freind with benefits 3 challenge 4 easy to dump and forget about. She won't be trying to get you back if you hurt her enough. 5 easy to dupe into things like that I'll change.

Unless a guy has changed before he meets you then he won't change his ways.

[the-truth]

im a good boy, but i can tell you most people won't like a good girl, if she not a freak in the bedroom.

[Asker]

What, why? And there's no way to know that...

[the-truth]

i would assume most good girls are boring af in the bedroom. i need a good girl who is a demon in bed, only way to tell is by trying them all out i guess

[Wolfwarner]

If he's a bad boy and wants to be with a good girl its most likely for one reason, virgin pussy. If he knows he's not going to sleep with you though and he's still going after you he must REALLY like you

[Anonymous]

i think them types of guys "bad boys" find "good girls" boring. but why the hell would a good girl want a bad boy in the first place? bad boys aka players, alpha males. dont respect girls, especially the "good girls".

[Decentguy]

a piece of advice : dont ever chase bad boys, because in the end, your gonna regret it

[Asker]

Why?

[Decentguy]

because mostly, they are only interested in sex and nothing else. so its the chances are very high that they will never get in a relationship with you, and if they even get in a relationship with you, then they won't stay faithful, honest with you, they will cheat on you

[Asker]

That's sad.

[Decentguy]

yeah...

[CabernetSauvignon]

noo...

bad boys like players are better lovers when reformed they say.

bad boys and players can do what they do becaues they have the skills.

[busterhimen]

did you learn this from santa or the Easter bunny? And I'm the king of France!

[venomhbk1313]

It's a turn on for me if a good girl play's hard to get then when I get with her I'll corrupt her in a good way lol

[Anonymous]

We think, "another notch in the belt" and later try to remember her name.

[1bigjerk]

bad boys love good girls. cleaner tighter vag is always great

[Anonymous]

Its fun to corrupt a good girl. Most are inner freaks. Its fun to make them open to everything

[AleDeEurope]

They're like "yes!! Easy targets."

[travao]

Loser guys for loser girls.

[SuccessfulHornDog]

They need our seed most of all

[Anonymous]

they love them ( according to what i see)