Bad boy with a heart of gold?

[Anonymous]

I Love to party a lot. I'm a DJ and a tattoo artist with the typical "bad boy" look, tats, piercings, mohawk, etc. But, I totally respect women. I don't sleep around...much. I'm looking for a serious relationship. I am a total hopeless romantic. Many times while DJing or tattooing I get girls throwing themselves at me. MOST of the time I reject them(I am a guy not gonna apologize for my manly needs lol). I want sex with love now, I've had too much sex w/o love. These girls I reject get super Pissed! Throw $hit at me yelling calling me gay, etc.

Girls is a Good /Badboy a turn on? Or just plain confusing? I've been told I am a bad boy/player with a heart of gold. Lol I am neither! I'd like to think I am a good guy, respect women, help the elderly and animals lol. Don't know if I'll ever find my mate, but it will be a damn interesting search...

[jemmlove12]

I get why you may think your look comes across as bad boy but for me personally I notice a bad boy simply by the way he acts. So I guess all girls are different because I wouldn't put you in the bad boy category until I got to actually know you and not by looks only.

Saying that, the thought of a badboy with a heart of gold sounds amazing. Someone who can keep you on your toes yet treat you like a princess.

I don't think you'll have any bother meeting someone. Why not try meeting girls that are sober then take them out on a date..

[Voodoobunny]

judging by what you've described of your appearance, you might be giving girls the wrong idea. even if you have a heart of gold, girls who look at you won't necessairly expect it. You say you get a lot of girls coming on to you while you're DJing or tatooing, so why not go looking for a girl somewhere else?

the bad boy look draws a lot of girls attention, but not always the ones you want attention from. try looking for a girl somewhere other than you usually find them and you'll probably get different reactions :)

[Oceansize]

Where do you live? Hahaha, just kidding. Sort of.

Bad boys with a heart of gold are the one in a million. You probably wouldn't have wanted those girls who got upset, threw sh*t, and called you gay anyways.

Don't lose hope, but you may have to make some serious changes. First off, like where you meet girls.

[Ilovecameras]

Turn on for most girls. But then, you'll have to be more than the first impression. You gotta spend time with a girl so she'd know you're not a player at all :) most girls have the idea that if a guy has a lot of girls throwing themselves at him, he's definitely a player. Not fair, I know. But that's just first impression.

[MindyWatson]

At least you're decent enough to reject women. Go you. So many guys just string us all along... like their own personal devotees... You'll be fine. Don't settle.

Bad boy as a turn on? Yes. Duh.

A good-hearted bad boy? Hellz yes. Hellz duh.

[walalalaa333]

Yesss it is!

But with a bad boy persona... it may be hard convincing someone that you're a good boy. But... actions speak louder than words, and if you say and act like a good guy, I'm sure girls will notice. Don't give up :)

[Anonymous]

A badboy with a heart of gold sounds awesome in my books.

Is there really such thing as sex with love for men?

Honestly I thought sex was just sex for guys.

[Opinion Owner]

If females are throwing themselves at you then I guess you sort of already know the answer.

[CrystalMinds]

Many girls fall for the bad boy look, but it's great that you have the good guy personality. Perfect combo in my opinion!

[heyyyheyyy]

Find a good girl who doesn't want sex straight away. Sounds like you got the confidence to find a decent girl

[flirtsflirt]

Bad boys are hot but they don't last all around.u have to.have heart.

And if you have it ur.f***in golden :D

[Anonymous]

maybe change your lifestyle, it will be hard to have a relationship when yo have girls throwing themselves at you all the time.

[Anonymous]

Sounds eh

[Anonymous]

You sound datable