No (Basic education is PERFERED)
Yes (Advance education is PERFERED)
To all of them I’d say whatever they can handle, which is an absolute bitch with stress inducing smart phones. And it’s for that very reason I’d lean toward college educated. It’s takes an informed person to weave through the litany of half truths packaged with free shit littered all over the internet. So much of it is god dam political shit. Fucking googles algorithms market their key words to the highest bidder which goes right at the top of the results. They patronizingly label some of the results ads as a bait and switch and then the next results without the “ad” label, has fucking ads in it:
”Here’s our message for something that pisses you off that’s technically half true and is catered to YOUR perspective. Oh and now a word from our sponsor to advertise you some shit that you can’t afford or is so cheap it might be unhealthy for you.”
Who the fuck has time to go through millions of results and bloated articles for every god dam keyword search?
And this ties into women empowerment. It’s a necessity. Women or men can be as submissive or as dominant, static or fluid, in the bedroom as much as they please. That’s their sanctuary and their business, NO ONE else’s. There is still shit to this day I won’t share with other people out of confidence. It takes a woman, and man who are educated & DISCIPLINED to discuss that shit without directly exposing/disclosing anything to maintain that trust ie a slip of the tongue. Outside of that is a different ball game, and it takes trust to maintain that boundary.
To that I’d yield to Lorde and say “Push”. But know your limits. Not an easy thing to do.
Listen to me. No man wants a empty headed girlfriend. We'd like her to be smart, carry on a conversation and keep up with events.
But women have a habit of putting on men what they themselves find attractive in men. Thinking we like that in women.
It's a different scale. Don't care how much money you have, how educated you are, or what you drive or what you live in.
How good a partner are you going to be? Are you submissive or are you a headache?
Will you bring your 100% to the relationship.
Will we fuck?
Are you full of baggage with a high body count?
That's what it is. Idc if she's more or less educated than Me, but if to guess I'd say she'll be more educated than me given I was homeschooled and that's ok, if it dont bother her it don't bother me.
Simp
I can't wish on something that is already true
If it breathes. Its a simp
I'm a university graduate, but I know several very well-read high school grads whom I consider "educated".
The thing is, learning doesn't stop once you leave the classroom. You just get to drive your education yourself.
I'm a lifelong learner. I am always looking for new things to learn, new skills to build, and new fields to read into. I want someone similar who can share in the joy of learning.
Fuck Netflix and Chill, give me Nebula and Chill. Documentaries and deep dives into interesting subjects.
Lol many guys I talk to lean towards those with formal undergraduate education. I always wanted to know why?
If you check statistics you find that most women who don’t advance as high as you stay at their same level over time. Ofc there are few that still love to engage in learning more concepts but I mean let’s be real. No one wants to sit and pay extra money for college classes when they could look at YouTube for free. And that’s completely fine! You can still be successful both ways.
They want a smart woman and do not necessarily concern themselves with education unless what she says totally contradicts their belief system
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I don't care. I mean it's fine if you have a skill set that allows you to memorize shit and spout it out. But damn sometimes all that knowledge does jack shit for you. I have a friend with 3 Doctorate degrees and the fucker makes less money than me... I'm like a stay-at-home dad and jerk off 9 times a day... how in the fuck? I'm beating him in life and I just play Elden Ring and jerk my weiner. I think any skillset only becomes abhorrent when it starts to take the same path as a used car salesman... where making the sale is more important than anything else. Kinda like a dude that is just trying to get laid at no matter what he has to say. I'm an accountant degree holder by the way... and I'm a retard at math. I can't even fucking spell words half the time.
No way 3 doctorate degrees… And you make more than him? 😂
Yeah... half Koren dude, who lives with his mom still. Me... married a Philipina/Islander woman... doing fine. We became friends in the military. American obviously because of the race-mixing shit.
His degree mostly was in art or music. I have a few in comp science.
No, he was some kind of science stuff like my accounting is also considered a science degree... we're not the arts degree type people. He did Penn State while I did San Diego community college. lolz. I can't remember what he did so much school for but it was some dry-sounding stuff to study. He was socially awkward and I think what happened was, he got back home after the military and didn't want to go back out into regular life after... also kinda like me. He has a loving supporting family though and they started sending him to school... probably to get his ass out of the house. Did nothing but school for like 12 years. Actually more than 12. Now he just takes random pictures of bullshit and makes a statement about it. ... and moved right back in with mommy and daddy. He does remind me of my uncle Lee... that dude did art school into his 40's, got chosen by either Bush or Clinton as the best artist type stuff... he was cool and taught me how to paint basic shit, but the only thing we really had in common was shooting guns. That shit was fun! He ended up fucking his back up some more and started painting with his mouth. Was on television again for that shit. ... never made any money though. His house was a shit hole and my Great Grand parents paid for it. They bought him another house and I helped build all the damn wheelchair ramps and then I was off to the real world. They all died before I came back from the military. Other family fucked me out of literally everything I was supposed to get as far as inheritances. But fuck it, it's whatever. Wasn't my fault I was out in the middle of the ocean with them bombing the shit out of Iraq. Nothing I could do at the time.
Now that I'm thinking about it, it was probably best my Uncle turned into a paraplegic. He was storing sulfur for some reason and had a bunch of acids for some reason. Would make 9mm uzis in the shed. That's where I learned all the metal work stuff from. I think he was planning something but it didn't pan out. I mean we were making our own cartridges for all sorts of guns and everything.
I attended graduate school and I graduated with honors from law school, so I appreciate the value of an education. I have dated women who never went to college and learned that most of them are intimidated by men with more education and sometimes resentful. On the other hand, I communicate much better, and have more in common, with women who are educated. So I prefer educated women, not because they are "better," but because they are easier to have as a partner.
That’s great and then you both be on the same wavelength when it’s comes understanding complex concepts better :,)
Indeed!
A college education does not really prove anything.
greatly depends on subject, level etc,
Also not having a college education does not prove anything, they may have personal reasons for not going to college.
a college person studying art versus a non college person with non college qualification in maths, software and working for a tech company.
i know plenty people that did not go to college or in UK, university and are holding senior roles.
It’s more about compatibility, case used someone doing a course like art does not say what their level of education is, they might be hugely shit at maths.
it’s about the person not their education.
Well intelligential topics and conversations will arise in a relationship (ex: finances, law, etc) it’s important to know how to deal with them. I wondered if guys don’t care that much when it’s come to if their partner doesn’t know due to her stopping at a certain level. It seem like it from your reply which is perfectly okay.
Okay, so I am 41 and also I am friends with our company’s legal Counsel and go drinking with them. We have likely talked about law 5 times in 6 years.
What is intelligential in regards to someone studying art?
Finances will be usual house and spending type finances.
That’s pretty much Arithmetic and you do not really need a maths degree to work through that, again person doing art at college, do they understand Calculus?
Many people are in debt pay for people who can do their taxes, spendings, debt management etc. My question is not a necessary thing all men need to answer. It’s just a simple life optional choice you’ll like your partner to have or not. Both answer are completely preferred and you can live a successful life without. Lol it’s just a matter of preference.
Again. Where does someone doing art feature in that.
I spent a number of years working with some incredibly intelligent guys and girls, pretty much none of them had been to university, however they could world on some very cutting edge electronics and also as part of aircraft design teams.
Im saying it’s simply not important, as long as you are both compatible.
There is too much snobbery around it at times.
Also I totally bombed school but now have 2 degrees I did after 25.
Getting a degree in something, simply means you had the ability to pass that specific subject at a given level, it does not give you great levels of knowledge in areas outside of that subject.
One of our mathematicians is incredibly brilliant at maths, brain size of a small planet, however he has the social skills of custard.
I don't care about her education level. I want her to not be influenced and indoctrinated by liberal college professors. Maybe she could get most of her college education online where she just reads the books and doesn't interact so much with the teacher.
Plus, if she does have a degree, I'd expect her to use it, not accumulate tens of thousands of dollars in debt and then just waste the degree or expect me to pay for any of that loan debt. And the degree should be something useful, not women's studies, or art history, or diversity, etc.
I want her intelligent enough to enjoy playing games like Stratego, Catan, Skrimmish, etc. with her where she has a chance to win. Dumb people are no fun to play strategy games with.
Make sense I understand
I don't care about advanced education as long as she is smart, curious, open minded, has a skill and a strong work ethic, and can support herself. A lot of education is based on life experience. And advance education doesn't necessarily make a person smart or informed. It just teaches a skill. In some cases, it serves as a form of indoctrination. Not that I am opposed to higher education. All education is a good thing as long as it doesn't make a person think they know everything or that their thoughts are infallible.
Education is pointless if a person is too oblivious to actually use it.
Many times its been proven that even advanced education fails people on a daily basis,
learning the laws of thermodynamic didn't help betty be a better porn star to pay off those extremely high student loans she didn't worry about when she was in collage without a rock solid goal/plan. she spent the next 20 years in misery because she didn't have enough money for collage and took out too many loans, jobs won't hire her because she has no practical skills outside of the stuff she learned in collage which doesn't help flip burgers.
Learning how to fix cars with her dad helped Sarah grow up with basic engineering knowledge, she dropped out of high school and went to learn basic automotive engineering and is now working a full time job at her dads Autoshop. She makes a modest income and lives a modest life. Soon she will be the owner of her dads Autoshop and she is living comfortably and happy.
That’s a rare case. Not everyone blessed to have a dad and let alone have a dad who is a entrepreneur. I’m confused to why she even went to college if her dad had his own business? Lol I would drop everything to work for my dad! 😂
high school education or equivalent works for me. if she's a decent person who's generally healthy with basic life skills.
since most girls who go to college tend to end up with tons of loan debt. which I'd much rather not be forced to pay off on her behalf. roughly 70% of all student loan debt in America is held by girls. yet many of them have trouble paying it off or want the government to forgive it. when they are the ones who decided to take out those loans in the first place. because they had been told by verse sources to go get a college degree.
I didn't vote in the poll because your question is not a yes or no question. That is, users don't know which they are answering yes or no to.
My answer is that I don't care about her education. I care about a lot of things in a woman, but her education isn't one of them.
Having said that, I will also say that a highly educated woman can sometimes be a red flag because it could mean her life priorities may not be consistent with mine. I'm a family guy and want a wife for whom family is her number one priority too.
that’s completely understandable i know a few women that got a few degrees up the social laddder bc of their education and treated other women less than I’m not by the words she say but by her demeanor :,(
how about forming the question so either answer can make sense?
for example: "if you prefer a woman with an education higher than a GED, answer yes " .
my response : formal education-especially the indoctrination therein today- has little bearing on intelligence and even less on wisdom nor ability, in fact the brainwashing in university group studies/humanities is harmful to relationships and society.
Read the update where it says “POLL” it will make sense then
Their education is irrelevant. It doesn't matter to me if they have a PhD or dropped out of school in the 8th grade. There are a lot of other things that are far more important in whether I like them. There are also a lot of other things that are far more important when it comes to how successful they are in life.
You don’t mind if she has a basic education okay 👍
I can't really vote because I don't prefer either 🤷♂️ Education doesn't factor into the equation whatsoever. All I care about is if I can have fun conversations some days, deep convos other days, and I find her perspective stimulating in some way. There are plenty of smart ladies who don't have degrees. In fact, I've experienced a lot of ladies with degrees thinking they are smarter than everyone, and they often dislike me when I show them that's not the case (I hate arrogance lol)
Guys don't car about a girl's career or education. That's what women look for in men. If anything the career path will make it harder for her to find a cohesive partner. Advanced education usually puts an ego inside the girl much bigger than she can handle.
I'm going to be a lawyer soon, so I guess I would tend to prefer a woman with more education. I don't really care all that much though.
wish you best in your journey x im rooting for u!
I am college educated, but with 50% of marriages ending in divorce, and 90% of them are initiated by college educated women, I'm leaning towards basic education 😅
I want a happy and strong relationship with someone one day, so I would rather pick someone who is more likely to do that and not leave me in 5 - 10 years.
I definitely won't want a dumb woman.
Everyone knows things, but no one knows everything.
I think being willing to learn is more important.
this is right x
I prefer basic education...
1. No debt
2. No schooling in feminist underwater gender basket weaving theory.
3. No college party lifestyle ie heavy drinking casual sex.
Even if these things werent the case, the education offers no advantage to me, so its completely unnecessary in terms of dating.
Its a red flag
Yes
Look. Tbh. I want a dumb bitch. I want to control her sexually. And just not even here her. Amazing. A retarded hot woman is the best. They exist only to fuck me. Their existence. Is the equivalency is that of a rock in my backyard. To fuck.
The more educated, the better. But I will take someone with any level of education as long as they are emotionally mature, and if they are curious with a thirst for knowledge.
Both have pros and cons. I know people who didn't even finish highschool that are smarter than friends I have that passed the MENSA.
schools in general are a pretty terrible way to measure intelligence.
I feel like the general consensus will be yes but I really don’t care. Oh do care though that she is smart. Some of the smartest girls I know have not collage education. Reading is life and i both love it and encourage it!!!
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