How do girls feel when their man doesn't like it when other men check you out?

[crmoore]

[TransAm85]

It's stupid and irritating. Especially when he's drunk. We go out and I am not even paying attention to the other guys, my concentration is on him only, but he notices! That's insecurity on the guys part. One in a million will I even notice another guy.. he has to be super outstandingly different or my type of cute, otherwise IDGAF!

[crmoore]

Why do a portion of people jump to the conclusion "he doesn't like it because he feels threatened by them and the integrity of his relationship is at risk and therefore he is insecure"?

I'd imagine, for example, most women wouldn't be happy if another women were to take your boyfriend's phone and go through his "nudes" folder and look at his naked body. She's not insecure because that girl likes him and is a threat to their relationship, she dislikes it because that sort of thing is (typically) supposed to be for her and her only.

By extension, some guys don't like the idea of men eyeing up his girl's assets. I'm sure some guys might get insecure, but I think jumping to that conclusion is unreasonable.

[TransAm85]

It's not a conclusion, it's the truth. I see him look at other women walking by sometimes, but it doesn't bother me. I look along w/him to see what she has that I don't! Most of the time it's the tits b/c mine are quite small.

[crmoore]

If you assert that it's the truth, then that would be your conclusion.

And you're comparing two fundamentally different things. Him looking at other girls is not the same as guys looking at you. The equivalent would be girls looking at him.

And you're not explaining why its "the truth" nor are you refuting my example of a girl seeing the nude photos of someone's boyfriend.

[Dinklex3]

It's fine as long as he isn't making a big deal out of it or blaming me, lol.
I'm not going to make him feel bad about disliking when another person checks me out or oogles at me.
As long as he's managing his feelings and they aren't extreme.
I wouldn't qualify just that as him being a jealous person.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

It should actually be a compliment. If no other guy is looking at your chick is because she's ugly.

[Guy13]

Insecure B-strd... you don't trust me, Why? I'll give something to not trust me about you, A-hole

[boredgal]

it really depends on how he handles the situation, they could be overreacting and it would end up in a fight (I would not feel good about that) but if he just lowkey protects me from those guys, like taking me further away from them or randomly covers me and kisses me *sighs* i'd want that man forever.

[LilyoftheLake]

Honestly? It makes me feel warm and safe.

I've had too many experiences with being checked out and feeling scared and embarrassed. His protectiveness indicates that I'm safe, and that he cares about me.

[KrisPW]

Depends a lot on the girl and the relationship. Mine knows I'm coming home with him and would just get a kick out of it. Just looking wouldn't get him agitated at the guy or at me unless there was a safety issue. So I feel protected while still being free to dress sexy for him.

[Greergr]

It's okay if he doesn't blame me for another guy's wandering eyes or constantly nagging about it. As a person who is always loyal, it can be a nice feeling depending on how he thinks about it. He's the guy dating a girl some men want, which is a good feeling as long as it doesn't manifest into a gross toxic-masculinity way.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes I don’t even notice when other guys check me out. Usually my boyfriend tells me when other guys are checking me out. When he tells me, he is always full of pride and with a smile on his face like “that guy behind us, he was checking you out, poor guys jaw dropped, he kept drooling ”… 😏 and I’m just shocked every time he says things like that. To me is cute because he knows that they can only look but only he can touch 😂🤣

[mandyfire98]

I mean what am I supposed to do about it? If they check me out, they check me out. He can get mad all he wants but it's not stopping anything.

[FearedMoose]

I’m not used to guys displaying their affection for me so I get a guilty feeling of being happy about it. It’s like a reminder that they like me. It’s silly, but it’s just how I tick.

[Stars12122]

I get annoyed. It's not my fault they are looking at me. I just want to have a good time with a man. If he's upset then I'm having less fun.

[sheikalana]

I like that as long as he doesn't get crazy jealous.

[Anonymous]

As long as he’s not pissed at me about it then it’s all cool.

[Subarugirl]

It makes me think that he is really insecure, possessive and easily threatened.

[vduong1988]

yeah my ex boyfriend hates it i break up with him he is jealous type

[goodgirlsteven]

I dont think he minds, but he may not be my man anymore after this week lol!

[WhitneySnow]

Stifled. And annoyed.

[anon1903]

I try to get him more jealous 💀

[Agape93]

It's annoying. I don't like jealousy

[Iron_Man]

They probably understand

[jahaims]

Annoyed at their immaturity

[Nikki1989]

It's annoying.