I was in a restaurant facing outside. I was looking out the window when a woman entered my view, walking by. She was a nice looking, full-figured woman, wearing a dress. My eyes were immediately drawn to her legs (typical for me), which were shapely and sexy. My eyes moved up to meet hers. She saw what I was looking at, and she broke into a smile, which I returned. Do you think she enjoyed my admiration?
I'll be honest I'm usually creeped out and I feel dirty/disgusted when older men check me out. I understand they have eyes and they will check out someone they find hot. I should see it as a compliment sometimes depending on the attention, you know it's harmless.
I think it's because I have had bad experiences with old men hitting on me and coming off like crazy sex fiends with no shame what's so ever. Maybe I have this fear and uncomfortable feeling when I get their attention. But if it's something innocent and they're just looking real quick and they won't try to talk to me after I would feel a little better about it.
The last time I felt disgusted and disturbed was when I was at the store with my mom. I was wearing a cute outfit and I will admit it did make me body look good. My mom was in the meat department, I was helping her shop. In the back the entire meat department of men were checking me out/staring at me hard.
Then my mom needed help finding something and two older men came out. One was probably in his late fifties and the other in his sixties. They at first stood there staring at me, really checking me out and I acted like I was oblivious to it but I was honestly extremely uncomfortable.
Then eventually my mom asked them for help and they helped her while staring at me, I mean that literally. I kept my eyes to the floor and avoided their eye contact. My mom doesn't have good eye sight so I had to stay there and help her find the one meat product she wanted so I couldn't walk away.
Then after they helped my mom they still stood there near the shopping cart and watched me while they laughed and smiled maybe saying sexual comments to each other I don't know really but I'm glad I didn't hear anything. Finally after my mom found what she was looking for, me and her left and went somewhere else in the store.
My mom later pointed out how those men were acting she could tell they were checking me out/into me and my mom is like half blind yet she knew what was going on it was that obvious. I felt extremely disgusted, I really did try to take it as a compliment but I just couldn't. It made me feel like a piece of meat or a sex object.
Recently, I was driving my car in the parking lot of a business, looking for a parking spot. This older man walked out and I caught his attention immediately. I at first didn't notice him staring at me. But when I looked over I see him, he doesn't look away and he had this smile on his face like he thought I was cute face wise since he couldn't see my body anyway.
I smiled back at him. I knew he was just trying to be nice, like it wasn't creepy even though he didn't look away he kept that eye contact and smile going. It was obvious he was very into me. But I could tell he was a harmless old dude you know, I didn't get creepy vibes.
So it depends and how much of an animal a guy can act. I do wish guys my age had more guts as the older men, making it known that they find you attractive. I don't mean the creepy way of making it known lol.
I ignore it up to the point where it becomes obnoxious. When it gets out of control, I intervene and give the offender a piece of my mind. I hate to be objectified and I am not an animal in the zoo or the circus that needs to be inspected.
If a guy has so little decency and respect towards women, that only indicates that he is a toxic person and that he obviously lacks the most basic education. I guess that he was never told not to objectify women but his little brain did probably not register the basics of ethics and good conduct.
It never happens so... I'd probably be flattered!
As long as you're not creepy or weird about it, I think it's nice. Contrary to what some men may think, some women rarely if ever get compliments, and like knowing that others think they are attractive in some way.
If she smiled at you, it seems like you made her happy: good for you!
I try ignoring if a guy is checking me out. But the other day tho I did notice a guy checking me out. He would not stop making eye contact and felt like he was staying through my soul. It was giving me the creeps I didn't like it at all
I find it cute.
There’s a very cute 21-22 yo checking me out every day I come back from work. He looks at me, raises his eyebrows and smiles when I catch him looking, then he touches his hair and looks at me innocently. I smile him back and we swap some more looks before the elevator closes.
I fond it fun.
If she was in your age range and you're good looking, OH YEAH!
To answer your question: If the person's in my age range and actually is good looking to me, YEAH!!! I twice noticed someone checking me out. He's crazy hot and in my age range. Most women fall at his feet (except for me 😅). AND I LOVED IT BOTH TIMES.
That is a very good question. Most of the time I don’t mind. It’s just natural in a lot of ways to admire someone you like. I personally don’t mind, if they don’t touch :) that’s the key I guess. Admire, but don’t touch. I think the fact you guys smiled at each other made it friendly more than anything so I think it’s cool. :)
Older guys check me out a lot but, when it is in a public place, usually they don't dare approach and, even if they do, they are not threatening so I don't mind. Mostly they try not to let me catch them looking but I do. Sometimes I smile but typically I don't indicate that I know. In any event, it does them so much good and me so little hurt that I feel obligated to let the look.
if your wearing a minidress or miniskirt especially micro you can expect to be looked and checked out by both men and women so not really a big deal.
Depends. If it's just a couple of looks I'm normally flattered. If it's creepy staring I get uncomfortable.
If she smiled, yes she did. If she didn’t, she probably would’ve given you a dirty look and/or the middle finger. So yeah, I think she liked it. 😊
A 50yo man with zero impulse control?
Nah, you're disgusting. Your attention is unwanted, nevermind appreciated.
What's that line from the Bible? Teach your men to pluck out their eyes?
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