Girls, agree on getting back at ex-girl? Why is that is more fround upon for guys to take revenge than for girls?

[Doc19873]

I dated this girl for 4 months. I really cared for her. It was a dream for me. Turns out after 2 months she started lusting for my best friend. She dumped me and said she thought I WAS the one who needed to see other people. 3 weeks later I found out she did all this because she wanted to fuck my friend. HE was the one who came forward to me and told me about her plans before he agreed to get it on with her. This slut really hurt me. She really fooled me into thinking she liked me. She achieved her goal and seduced and dated my now ex-friend. After 4 months of relationship with him, she dumped him because he made public their relationship, and news got to her exboyfriend (previous to me) who he felt sad about it, SO this bitch lashed against my ex-friend and told him that he had NO right to make their relationship public!!! She was mostly angry because her exboyfriend was hurt.

My revenge: after finding out what a nutcase she is, I still want to get back at her and now I know that all I have to do is go and talk trash about her with the exboyfriend. She actually complained to me about this guy when we were together. I want to go with him and let him know all the dirt she is talking about him behind his back and then making it seem as if she cares for him still.

I think she deserves it. She goes around playing men and then plays the victim!!! Fucking slut cost me my friendship and my emotional health for the past year. I want to do the same to her until she goes completely crazy!!

[devilish-cutie]

if it will make you feel better to somehow get back to her, i have no harsh judgment of that but revenge is generally frown upon people. The point is that you are now still hurting but there willl be people in your life that will hurt you and you shall learn from it, forgive ysf, give ysf time to heal, not let her to ruin your future relationship and finding love by the trauma she cause you. She is irrelevant and you should trat her as such, never let her in your life again. And if you have the need to tell others how she is so she doesn't cause the same damage to other people do it in calmrational manner.