I absolutely have. Something you can't take away from an ex is history. Sometimes what you think you need is something familiar for some sort of comfort reasons. You are not think about the reasons they became your ex. There is always reasons they are your ex. I will never make that mistake again in my life.
Yes, but not for the reason you're asking about. I have left a girl to get back with an ex, but I didn't regret leaving the other girl. My regret was getting back with my ex. The fact that I was even willing to leave the other relationship in the first place is kind of evidence that it wasn't working, so I don't regret leaving that relationship at all.
Yes, and it was one of the biggest growing experiences I ever went through because it was so stupid on my part and the whole situation was so painful to go through.
That's rather cold! That's using a girl as a masturbation rag! Most girls can't easily separate sex from emotions. Guys just sometimes need to get off. So if you just use a girl as a masturbation vessel and then throw her away, you're playing with her emotions, which really... it ain't nice!
I gave someone up once, and she called me up weeping. I was young and stupid. For five decades that has haunted me, to the point where I truly wish there were a way for me to at least apologize and ask forgiveness. It might have worked out, but, as you said, we'll never know. But also I realized, we make mistakes, and as we grow and gain maturity, we realize that you can't have everyone. We have to make decisions, and sometimes they're the wrong decisions. But you have to forgive yourself sometimes, cut yourself a little slack. The person you are today might have made a different decision, but that's not who you were then, and that's not your fault.
