Would women let their sons simp?

[Chthou95]

Simp
· He's not attractive
· He gives attention to women that don't want him or like him
· He's aware a lot of them have boyfriends but still puts them on a pedastol
· He defends her honor in hopes she'll give him the time of the day. Even if she was the one in the wrong
· He spends and spends money on onlyfans because that's his only real access to getting anywhere with women.

So would you let your son go down the simp route?

[kylee2437]

I think it’s weird as hell that a mother would intrude on what her sons chooses to do with his love/sex life. If I had a son, what he chooses to do is up to him personally, unless if he’s spending so much to do the point where he’s asking me for money and what not.

[kylee2437]

To the point*

[Chthou95]

Bless that kid

[kylee2437]

@Chthou95 he will be blessed since he won’t have a parent up his ass controlling his constant life decisions. Mommy isn’t there to change diapers forever. Advice is only useful when asked for, it becomes harmful when you just aimlessly give out advice

[Chthou95]

If you want your son to go without ever experiencing relationships and meeting a girl then aye have at it

[Honesttguy]

I remember one kid i knew was talking on phone with girl he was simping for her big time, and then mother had to pay insanly huge phone bill cus of thst fuker

[kylee2437]

@Chthou95 you can’t determine who will experience a relationship based on the info above. Some people need to experience what they need to experience in order to not do the experience again. Once again, mommy isn’t there to change diapers forever and it’s weird as hell for a mother to involve herself that much unless if it’s affecting his day to day bills

[kylee2437]

@Honesttguy yeah if it gets to that point, that’s a huge issue

[Honesttguy]

Later on first apartment rent was mother guarantor and this bastard made parties and shit there and completly destroyed thst apartment into shredds, mother had to pay for that.

[kylee2437]

@Honesttguy yeah if my son acted that way, he would be no longer welcome to live in my house.

[Chthou95]

Talking about a kid that's older. Early twenties. More than likely if he's a young 20 year old simping, he won't change. If you're okay with that sweetie then good for you

[kylee2437]

@Chthou95 what 20 year old male values their mothers opinion?

[Chthou95]

You're right. That's why fathers are very important

[kylee2437]

@Chthou95 you are correct , but you asked about mothers and mothers shouldn’t involve themselves in their sons sex life

[Chthou95]

Arr you saying you wouldn't at least try?

[kylee2437]

@Chthou95 advice is harmful when given when not asked for.

[Chthou95]

Sometimes its the best option

[kylee2437]

@Chthou95 not when it’s not asked for

[Chthou95]

We have different views when it comes to this. So let's agree to disagree

[kylee2437]

@Chthou95 you have different views because you simply don’t like simps and you are using emotion as a view point instead of logic

[Chthou95]

Do you have an onlyfans?

[kylee2437]

@Chthou95 nope I actually don’t. My stand point isn’t because Women benefit from Simps, that’s emotionally speaking. My argument is based on the fact that most people need to help themselves when it comes to destructive behaviors. If you aren’t self aware of your own issues, you aren’t going to listen to anyone from the outside.

[Chthou95]

I've met people that have helped me and showed me a different view of life that hass helped. If i can do the same for other guys out there, i will. Im not a villain for wanting to help some of these guys out

[kylee2437]

@Chthou95 once again you are emotionally thinking. Just because you are open minded to new ideas , doesn’t mean everyone else is, especially when it comes to addictions. Simping is 100% an addiction.

[Chthou95]

I love how you will say im being emotional because usually people say women are emotional so i guess you're using this as a crutch saying I'm being emotional for trying to help fellow dudes. If they dont want the help, oh well. But the help is there

[kylee2437]

@Chthou95 you think you are being intellectual but in reality you are just coming off sexist and lame. Interesting that you didn’t even bother to ask why my mindset is the way it is. This is where being arrogant and wanting to actually intellectually converse separates. I have a bunch of addicts in my family and you definitely can’t tell them what is right and what is wrong. You think giving unwanted advice is helping when in reality you are just coming off arrogant to the fact that you just love wasting your time

[Chthou95]

How am i being sexist? Explain. That word has lost all its meaning since women just throw it around for anything now

[kylee2437]

@Chthou95 you literally are turning away at the fact that I can’t be logical because I am a woman when my answer is way more logical than yours. You think wasting your breath on unwanted advice is logical. It’s naive and emotional

[Chthou95]

I'm not saying women can't. But you're using that whole emotional thing on me because I'm a guy. I can help or offer advice without being emotional. You were looking to into it. Its not that deep

[kylee2437]

@Chthou95 you are missing the point. Soliciting unwanted advice is a form of being emotional vs leaving your side words for open minded people. It’s a waste of energy. If a guy is minding his business and spending his money how he wants, what is it to you? It’s simply your emotional stance that you can’t stand simping. Logical thinking would be minding your own business because another man simping is none of your business

[kylee2437]

And yes it is that deep. Insinuating I would be a bad parent for letting my son explore things that aren’t extremely affecting him and letting him learn from his own experiences is that deep

[kylee2437]

Wise words not side words***

[Chthou95]

People can do whatever they want but im not gonna lose any sleep if they don't want any change or help. You're being a bit emotional because you don't like the fact that someone would offer them help if they wanted it. You're defending the thottery real hard right now

[Chthou95]

And yes you would be a bad parent

[kylee2437]

@Chthou95 no I’m putting into perspective that you don’t know how to mind your business. I can only image the pointless perpetual chaos you bring into your life because you simply care way too much about what other people choose to do with their lives

[kylee2437]

@Chthou95 if you think being a good parent has to do with teaching your son not to simp only, you are in for a long ride 😂 you probably don’t even have kids

[Chthou95]

Dont want any but i also know that some people shouldn't have kids. doesn't take a genius to figure that out. But id offer the help and again if they dont want it, move along

[kylee2437]

@Chthou95 so you don’t want kids and you think you know what is best for kids? That’s extremely weird.

[Chthou95]

Ill never be a heroine user or crack addict but i still know that shit isn't healthy or good for a person to be doing

[Lionman95]

Because many guys wouldn't listen any way. Young guys think they know it all and one of the last people they'll listen to is their mum hence being seen as a mummy's boy seems equally bad.

It's natural part of life that guys figure out for themselves who they can date and who won't date them, sure it's painful but it's necessary to gain experience.

[Slartybartfast]

I have friends like that, I reel so sorry for them and frustrated as well. How do you tell them that there efforts are futile and that they should accept being alone and giving up is an option?
I mean usually , you try to encourage people not to give up when faced with difficulty, but this isn't difficulty , this is self abuse.

[LazerBean]

It depends on how old he is. I would definitely say something, but after a certain age they're not going to listen anyway and they're just going to turn you into the bad guy. The best thing to do is raise them better while they're young so that they don't do stupid stuff like that.

[Guy13]

I would not watch my child do anything as self-destructive as described here. That’s just me though. When they move out on their own then what can one do?

[Subarugirl]

Lol and what do you think you could do about it?

[Honesttguy]

Yeah thats the thing mothers can't get too involved with guys simping, cus simping is done in private.

[youngmix]

I'm not sure about their native names, but using their English names: France, Finland, and Fiji.

[youngmix]

Sorry, wrong post. And I would try my best to keep my son from simping. That's some sad ass shit. Seriously, I would tell him to hire a prostitute/callgirl before funding an onlyfans account. Or just watch porn for free.
Some people are stuck on simp, though.

[Badboy132]

Simpin ain’t easy