Is it worth thinking about this girl still?

[Anonymous]

Hello! I had a girl I met last week at a bar who was mutual friends with a buddy of mine. I spoke to her for a little bit and she ended up asking me to dance with her and her friend in which she eventually asked for my number. We kissed a few times and I set a date for the following week.

I texted her the last night to confirm a pickup time. She texted me later saying her friend surprised her and wanted to know if we could reschedule for next week. She also offered to pay any fees with the reservation and that she was really sorry. I responded the next morning because I was asleep and was assuming she was probably letting me down gently. I basically said no worries and there were no fees so nothing to worry about. There has been no response since so I'm guessing I'm correct in my thinking that she was just being nice?

[Pegases]

I'd move on. Women will always try to avoid confrontation when they're not interested because of a fear of violence. Men often don't realize this because we don't fear violence from women, but for a woman, a man reacting violently to being rejected is a real fear. So most often you won't get a straight up, I'm not interested anymore from a woman. Thus, when a woman cancels the date, all that's necessary to say in response is OK. You don't need to try and be nice or set up another date. And ok will suffice. Because, if she really wants to see you, she'll reach out because she's the one that canceled. And if she deosnt reach out, your dignity is still intact. There are so many women out there my friend, don't sweat it.

[Asker]

that's what I'm doing, I don't know why she asked for my number and kissed me tbh. was a confusing week lol

[Guy13]

Man, you did everything right including a future plan. This makes no sense... besides maybe she was drinking too much? I am guessing.

[Asker]

nah she wasn't really drunk, I was super confused what happened. my sister said she prob does want to reschedule but I don't know

[Asker]

I offered to drive her home that night cuz I was sober at that point too, and she texted me saying it was great meeting me tn. I am super confused

[Guy13]

I wonder if someone who would commit and then uncommitt is someone to be involved with? Maybe it is a blessing in disguise. I don't know but it is not the actions of a reliable person?

[Asker]

yah that was my thinking, she asked to reschedule next week but I don't know if she really wanted that. Maybe me responding the next morning pissed her off but by 10pm im asleep during the week lol. she never responded again but why ask if we can reschedule next week. people confuse me hahahah

[Guy13]

Might as well ride it out but I would not expect reliable and consistent...