Girls said she didn't sleep with me right away cause she didn't want to lose me does that make sense?

[Anonymous]

[kylee2437]

Because if you decide to have sex before an actual bond is made, the likeliness of the relationship sticking and staying is slim because once you have sex with someone you tend to look past the lack of compatibility, but you are entangled in the sex.

[Asker]

Thanks needed some clarification

[maximumpower]

To her it does.
If it sounds like bs to you, its bc it IS bs.
Also - if you expected to bang her the first night, then you have a bit to learn about relationships.

[Asker]

Lol yeah that was my plan but I kinda fell for her

[Avicenna]

It does. She apparently wants something serious and durable, not a fling or hookup.

[Asker]

That's ture thank you

[Guy13]

You get sex and you go away

[Guy13]

Does that make sense to you know. She thinks if you two have sex that you will disappear on her. She wants you to have a chance to get to know her. In other words, you are going to have to work for it with this one.

[Asker]

Ahh okay wasn't sure thank you

[In_Trance]

Might make sense if she explains her logic