Girls, did she wanted me and just because I am kinda distant she stopped talking to me just because she can't be with me?

[Anonymous]

after argument, my love interest blocked me then after 1 month, she started to talk and when i said why she blocked me she replied because i was so happy ofc she wasn't. i told her to unblock so that we can continue our friendship. eventually she did but she pulled away and it seems like she doesn't want to talk to me. before, she indirectly appreciated effort i gave to become her boyfriend. another guy wanted her but she brotherzoned that guy and seemed like she wanted me. now what to do

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude it's hard to say for sure what's going through her head, but it kinda sounds like she was into you at first but then got discouraged cuz you seemed distant after your argument. Girls can lose interest quick if they feel like a guy isn't that into them.

My guess is she blocked you cuz she was sad after fighting, and then decided to unblock and try being friends again once she cooled off. But now you being all distant and nonchalant is probably making her think you don't really care that much. Why would she keep chasing you if you're not even giving her much attention, ya know?

If I were you, I'd try stepping up your game a bit. Ask her to hang out one-on-one and really listen to her without getting defensive. Compliment her and flirt a little to remind her how great you think she is. Then maybe try holding her hand or putting your arm around her to show physically you're interested.

Assuming you still like her back, you gotta show it strong before she totally gives up on you. If she feels wanted, you've got a way better chance of winning her over. Just don't wait too long - other dudes are probably trying to get at her too. You've got this man!

[CuriousHubby]

So she emotionally black mailed. you to be her online boyfriend?

Some women are twisted or have like 6 bfs online only for attention and to rant and talk about what they want.

She wanted your affection and attention not really your personality persay!

Your her online toy now!