My boyfriend asked his mom “isn’t she so pretty?” And she said “yes she is. Can’t say nothing.” Would you have been offended?

[xJayleenx]

And then she proceeded to talk about her pregnancies and how she was never big she doesn’t know why. She’s actually a very sweet woman and she does love me she even gives me kisses on the cheek and is always thanking me for being her son’s girlfriend. she’s just a bit outspoken sometimes as the people of her country are. Would you have gotten offended? I know that by her beauty standards I must be big to her because she even thinks that her son is big. But she talking about weight a lot yesterday and telling my boyfriend to run too. She’s an old lady so I’m not taking things too bad. I’m already insecure though.

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Ignore this question please lol well at least i feel better maybe I need rest 😂

[VIVANT]

Jay!!! 😖 🥵 😂 she meant:

I can NOT disagree 🤷🏻‍♀️
You are not wrong about that!
I can’t think of anything bad!
You will get no arguments from me!
Yes she’s pretty 😍

It was strictly positiveeeeeeeee 🤦🏻‍♀️

[xJayleenx]

Thank you I know 🤦🏽‍♀️😂 it’s just that with her accent sometimes I don’t know what she means

[xJayleenx]

Lmao im so sorry

[VIVANT]

Ohhh nope that makes sense! Yeah inflection can really switch things up and it’s not at all strange to be unsure how things are meant in that case. I’m positive she meant it the way I said but I do get why you’d be confused it’s not crazy 💗

[AviatorTom]

Why would you be offended? She paid you a compliment. "Her words "Can't say nothing" are positive, not negative. They mean that she cannot see anything wrong with you, you're very good for her son.

Consider yourself lucky, not all parents would be so nice.

For example, when my sister asked my father if he liked the guy she was engaged to, he said "I don't have to like him, you do."

[xJayleenx]

You guys are right I was overthinking lol

[VikingWarLord]

Americans are indeed way too obese.

It's crazy how skinny people are when you go overseas then you come back to America and it's Fat and Lard everywhere

[xJayleenx]

If they’re in New York I don’t blame them the food there is too good otherwise I don't know

[VikingWarLord]

is that right,
well damn

[DizzyDesii]

She agreed that you were pretty. So whats the prob?

[xJayleenx]

She said can’t say nothing lol like what’s that supposed to mean 😂

[DizzyDesii]

It means She can't say nothing bad. You overthink too much

[xJayleenx]

Thank you lol ♥️

[Guy13]

No. If I was you, I would have had thanked his Mom for the kind words... and grabbing her son's hand for a walk IN HER PRESENCE. Mom-Daughter on same page kind of thing... you do care for her son !!

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

His mom seems pretty cool no reason to worry about her.

[Jamie05rhs]

I don't think she meant anything bad. Don't overthink it! :)

[Kelly6]

What’s the problem?

people are getting offended by everything now.

[dolemite89]

nothing wrong with a girl that has some extra meat on her bones 🤷‍♂️🤣

[Guardian45]

I don't think you have to worry about his Mom

[Zolly99999]

Nah..