Should I move on?

[Kingstacks]

I've been in a relationship with a woman I met since a yr & a half ago. I loved everything about her I just wanted her to lose a little weight we argued for about 2 months. Then she just started going to the gym. We've had our ups & downs wanting to break up etc. January we had an abortion I wasn't very supportive initially then I apologized & made it up to her. Then June 16 she found out she was pregnant again. I said I would be there & wanted to keep the baby she said no because we both live with our parents. Since then she's started to hate me became distant everytime I try to talk to her she's quick with me. So last week we argued & she lives an hr away she blocked my number & I was on the way to her house 10 mins later she gets home from work I try to talk to her she storms in the house. I'm begging for her to stay etc. And it's weird because by the time she was pregnant we were cool. She blocked me on social media as well. We spoke for the first yesterday since last week. I just wanted to know about the baby so she still wants the procedure I said okay I'll go half. She doesn't want me to be there for the procedure or anything just pay my half. She said she hates me she never wants a guy like me she told her dad about me he said I look like the type that would never change etc. But it's funny I been investing in a business so I was dealing with tough times because it's expensive I started making a profit by June. She doesn't know because she started acting distant by July. Also during her distance I brought her a rose bear & some shoes she wanted that are 150$ I shipped those. But during that last convo she said she didn't care if I was a millionaire & the best man I could ever be she'd never be with me. It just hurts because as soon as things start getting better for me financially & I start becoming more happy this happens. We pay for the abortion next week. Should I move on?

[rip999]

I only read the first half. Never force someone to do something they don't want to do. don't control them or try to change them. You got in the relationship knowing she wasn't the most athletic. why date her in the first place? Find your match not create it. Wear a condom. Don't be irresponsible. If you live with your parents you are not ready to raise and take care of a child. How do you expect a child to depend on you when you depend on your parents?

[Kingstacks]

Well, she started to workout & everything was cool. I figured even if I had a baby by this year I would be able to support the baby because now I make enough income. Before she found out she was pregnant I wanted to look for a place to stay together she was cool with that. But I understand when you said find your match not create it.

[chocomilk99]

Absolutely my fella.. damage is alredy done .. take a break n go on a vacation

[Anonymous]

Move on.. For one you wanted her to lose weight yet you wanted her to keep the baby. What do you think will happen when she'd pregnant? She's going to gain weight. So you bringing up her weight wasn't smart.

As for her she needs to stop baby killing. If she doesn't want kids she needs to just get her dang tubes tied. That's common sense.

[Kingstacks]

Well, I no longer cared that was in the beginning. She just uses old things to bring to me.

[Kingstacks]

I stop caring about the weight thing.

[Opinion Owner]

Too late now. That's something she may have been insecure about so she couldn't let go what u said

[Darine123]

Move on, she doesn’t want you

[Clyde_123]

She doesn't seem like she's into you so move on.