Why the fuck does it seem like every women has been in an abusive relationship?

[Anonymous]

I’ve kinda come to the conclusion that most women aren’t logical when it comes to dating and relationships. It just seems like some women are somewhat drawn to men they fear or bring drama into their life and play victim. I even remember being the nice respectful guy ( no I’m not unattractive and I’m 6’4) in the relationship and the girl calling me gay because I respected her then proceeded to go back to her abusive ex then complain about it telling me how difficult it was dealing with him. Why are some women like this?

[sunflower00]

Because unfortunately a lot of men can be abusive, and it can only start showing once you’re well into a relationship so it’s hard to avoid those people. Also, I genuinely think a lot of men don’t realise what they’re doing is being abusive because they’re not taught it is and sometimes it’s kind of normalised or socially acceptable in a way for men to show certain abusive behaviour. Not me trying to excuse it because they should educate themselves and know right from wrong but still. There are also abusive women but we don’t hear about it as often because there’s this culture with men where they don’t want to talk about it incase they seem weak, and men will be horrible to other men about it and poke fun at them when it’s no laughing matter. Basically, loads of people on the planet can be abusive whether they do it intentionally or not

[CrazyGirl2]

Because there are an UNBELIEVABLE amount of abusive men out there… do the math! As for your little scenario… Yeah, that didn’t happen, not to you anyway! I’ve been here long enough to know that outrageous questions written by anonymous authors are always complete bullshit! This is no exception, its a troll designed to draw in misogynistic a-holes probably like you! Or then again, maybe you are just one of those sweet kind men who feel the need to hide their identity when they tell people about their amazing yet totally unbelievable situation involving being kind and loving to a woman who “called him gay” and went back to a guy who beats the shit out of her? Yeah that’s likely!

[Apologies456]

Hi I like bananas

[Asker]

How are you gone tell me what happened in MY life dumbass and nah I don’t hate women

[Apologies456]

😂😂😂

[HighlyQuestionable]

Honestly (and I don't know how to say these things more tactfully)

There is a growing (hopefully by now shrinking) subset of Women walking around H. U. A.

I have witnessed many girls and women act in ways that are completely bereft of reason and logic.

I have seen comments online from women who have stated that a man was "creepy" because of the shape of his eyes... If anyone else would have said that in any other scenario, it would have been called what it is... Bigotry.

Until this society demands that this subset act rationally, logically and consistently this country will continue to be a miserable place to live. Period.

[Xasildo]

Because most women have had to deal with immature jerks that made them feel small in their relationships. From childhood, adults dismiss the interests that young girls have because they know how cruel the world can be to women. And all the way to adulthood, they are barraged with men dismissing their accomplishments, making snide comments to them, and sending horny messages to them treating them as if they are only good for their bodies. Women have the most open-eyes to the dating experience and most would rather enjoy being who they are than committing to a relationship that could cause them months of hurt.

[Rockstarrrrr]

Yup many many girls are like that and girls get super pretentious and say it's only a few of them while literally having a friend like that... Why are they like that? I don't know exactly.. Good luck understanding the female psychology lol... I've had girls obsessed with me for a long time while I gave them no attention and also the opposite.. girls who would melt when I'm being nice and gentle and asked me out because they want more of that... The point is... Girls are Wack lol 😂... It's getting hard to find one who stands out

[YollyM]

I think most guys are ignorant because they can see when other guys/girls that they have no connection to are being abuse towards their women
but they're blind when it comes to their wrong doings or those of their close male.. people.

Actually I can't remember where I was going with this.

[JamesRandiDebates]

You weren't going anywhere. You were babbling like a typical female.

[YollyM]

@JamesRandiDebates I'm sorry Andrew Tate.. without the millions😅.
How dare I mention something that's irksome to you and make you feel some type of way, as if you have abused a woman or stood by and said/did nothing when a woman got abused.

You're telling on yourself sir, now everybody knows that the shoe fits.

[JamesRandiDebates]

Again. More inane babbling.

[YollyM]

@JamesRandiDebates Is "babbling" the only word in your vocabulary? The only fatuous thing is the little voice in your head that blocks out any sense made by a woman as a result of thinking that the mere genital that was only meant for excretion and reproduction somehow makes you automatically superior, not because you can reason with me sir.

Take a sit along with all the bitter men, you're personally not of significance.

[YollyM]

@JamesRandiDebates The imaginary women that have a bone to pick with you are not real, I promise.

[JamesRandiDebates]

You took the time to skim a thesaurus. Good for you. Obviously I struck a sensitive nerve. Truth hurts, eh?

[FilmGuy93]

People tend to repeat how they saw their parents behaving in their romantic relationships. So that's definitely part of it. People also tend change a huge amount when they get romantically involved with someone, so the person they are in the beginning usually isn't how they are once you're dating them.

[maximumpower]

Not all have, but MANY love to claim they've recently been in one.

My heart and sympathies truly do go out to those who have truly survived such a situation; however, like the panhandlers at traffic lights all over the country, not all are truthful.

Sociopathic narcissist ex was great at spinning such yarns.

[Apologies456]

It really gets me man. I’m just genuinely curious because all I see is shit that says “my abusive ex” by women all over the internet to the point that it doesn’t even stand out. As much as I see it it legitimately makes me wonder how many abusive men are out there because it seems like damn near 75% of them are by the amount of times I see those words. I mean sheesh

[JamesRandiDebates]

Women crave the attention they get from claiming prior abuse. Any any woman who claims to have been abused is damaged goods. Especially if she claims to have ever been raped. Best to avoid altogether unless you want to be accused of abuse and rape some time in the future, when the mood suits her.

[Anonymous]

Actually it seems many men I’ve met have been in abusive relationships as well, mostly emotionally abusive. Not everyone is what they seem in the beginning. Men and women seem to be easily deceived by abusive people.

[Asker]

Agree some people do hide their true self

[Twalli]

Some women like the idea of getting the "bad boy" and changing him. The dichotomy is that women pick men expecting they change but they don't while men pick women expecting them not to change and they do.

[jshm2]

They are just trying to keep a chad like you at arms length, kiddo.

[JessJJ]

There are a lot of abusive and violent men out there. It's impossible to avoid them.

[TroyDT]

More aggressive guys probably get more dates than the average, but that aggression can also exhibit itself in violence.

[Anonymous]

The truth is that both the man and the woman are usually abusive to each other. They just take turns playing the victim. Toxic people gravitate towards other toxic people.

[rip999]

Where are you looking for girls to date?

[Asker]

Different places I attract different women in different areas gym, the mall , clubs not often tho I don’t go out a lot so I guess I should travel more but it seems like they all are looking for a thrill

[rip999]

"I attract different women" you have the wrong mentality my guy. What women attract you? Even if they don't show interest ask them out. They could be shy or don't know how to give you signs. Before asking them out ask them what type of relationship they are looking for. If they say long term ask them out and see if that's true if that's what you want. Imagine your future wife. Do you image her at the club? If not stop looking for women there. Find her hiking? Go hiking and start looking.

[LimitedBenefits101]

Women love abusive men.