How can A women be more approachable?

[Justneedtokno]

[TheSpaceGnome]

You can't.


People approach you based on looks, perceived personality, projected interests, estimated age (which is impossible to guess accurately) and even then, most guys prefer the girl does the approaching because society only reprimands guys for sexual harassment, and we all know that if you so much as look at a woman long enough to decide if you like her looks, or make any sort of remark or expression to display your opinion about that, thats somehow "harassment".


Men aren't allowed to have opinions in public anymore. So women have to do all the approaching now.

[Sixgunsound]

Facts.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Just be polite in your attitude and behavior. Men will sense it and they will come to you themselves.

Girls today, I don't know, have been brainwashed or something with diff. concepts they seldom understand. Their attitude is volatile, judgy, snobbish, etc. Not all, but most of the girls are like this.

We can sense when the mood is not right, and we moat definitely understand that, but a permanent damage is clearly noticable.

[Jamie05rhs]

There has definitely been permanent damage on the side of young men.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

@Jamie05rhs What do you mean?

[Jamie05rhs]

@The_Shadow_Dweller You were saying that girls/women have been brainwashed by certain concepts that cause them to make themselves unapproachable. Right? And you said that a permanent damage is noticeable in them.

Well, I'm saying that a permanent damage is also noticeable in many men. Which is directly attributable to dealing with these women. Because, due to perceptions of women or personal experience with women or both, these men simply are not approaching anymore. At all.

[Jamie05rhs]

"Approachable" isn't a thing. Just throw that concept out the window entirely. Even if you were wearing a shirt that said "Flirt With Me" in bold letters, dudes still wouldn't talk because they would think it was a joke.

If you want to talk to a guy, just talk to him. It's that simple.

[Rockstarrrrr]

I don't think someone can be more approachable.. If someone wants to approach you they'll probably just do it... You just don't have to look super busy

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Be a pleasant person. Friendly and engaging.

[Juxtapose]

Smile, have a relaxed posture, don't be on your phone or with friends, etc.

[Justneedtokno]

Wait we still need to be safe so I’m going to keep my friend around

[Juxtapose]

You're afraid to wander alone? You should study martial arts from a reputable dojo.

I can walk alone at 3:00 a. m. and feel perfectly fine.

[Juxtapose]

I can tell you right now though that I would not approach a woman who was with a friend.

[Justneedtokno]

In certain situations I’m okay with being alone but 3 AM walking alone that’s crazy as a woman that’s dangerous

[Justneedtokno]

Don’t you guys always talk about putting yourselves or women put themselves into situations to get hurt that is one of them

[Juxtapose]

If you can't walk around in public at night then you are not a free person and I would be deeply dissatisfied with that. I would work hard to become the best fighter I could be in a certain my right to wander around as I please.

[Justneedtokno]

I can go somewhere at a regular hour but not at 3 o’clock in the morning. Unless I’m already meeting you somewhere less booty call hours. Nowadays it’s not safe to go do that as a woman. Men have that luxury. We’re free to do whatever I want but we also have to think about safety and just not that time of night or morning

[Juxtapose]

If safety is that big of a concern you should carry a gun.

[Justneedtokno]

Already working on that. But I’m gonna stick to my guns with not going out at 3 AM unless I’m already out or I’m with someone I trust

[Justneedtokno]

Why are you afraid especially if you like her

[Juxtapose]

Approaching new people can make me nervous but generally I try to get to know people I like.

[Juxtapose]

A friend would likely try to sabotage my efforts though unless I come off as a peak prospect.

[Jamie05rhs]

Whoah, whoah, whoah. I feel like I need to address this. @Juxtapose I think what you're saying is incorrect. @Justneedtokno is right. Women should not be out alone after dark. (Firearm or not. Martial arts training or not.) The buddy system is very wise.

[Jamie05rhs]

However, what you said about not approaching a woman if she's with a friend is accurate. And I feel the same way about that as well.

[Jamie05rhs]

So how do you reconcile these two things? Well, I think what women can do sometimes -- while in a safe, indoor environment (and while sober) -- is to split up slightly (like maybe 10 feet apart), while still keeping an eye on each other from a distance. That will give guys the space to come and talk to them individually if they are inclined to do so.

[Jamie05rhs]

(And by the way, I'm not afraid of the friend sabotaging. The reason I wouldn't approach is because I don't want the other girl to feel left out.)

[Jamie05rhs]

Also, really no one should be going out at 3 AM. Not even men. The people out and about at 3 in the morning are high on meth or crack cocaine.

[Anonymous]

Real simple. Just put forth a little effort. Most women fail because they feel like giving effort is beneath them.

[msc545]

She can be friendly, responsive, and make conversation.

[chocomilk99]

Appropriate dressing 🥲

[Philyouup]

be yourself and have no airs about yourself

[Andres77]

Where?

[Andres77]

Generally, smile more.
Specifically, it depends on where you are.