Can I get some help with something logical girls in a party night club setting?

[Anonymous]

[Lowiu]

Help with what?

[Asker]

So sorry if it’s sexual
How should a guy start a grinding dance with a girl?
If that makes sense

[Lowiu]

Like if she already dances closely to you put your hand on her hip and if she turns her back to you kind of lead her towards you all of course only if she does want to do that

[Asker]

How would I know if she wants to?

And for example if she wasn’t dancing near me
Would it be rude to go behind her?

[Lowiu]

If she in the first place wasn't close to you like putting yourself in the position doesn't help you as she made the descision already
Like it goes small step by small step and see if she is comfortable with them

[Asker]

True, i wouldn’t want to Harass her you know?