How do I know it is okay to approach a girl at a bar/party?

[mikalgo223]

So I remember a time I was at a party and like I couldn't really tell if this woman was checking me out or not cause she kept glancing at me. (Room was well lit) so I decided to make my way over and try to talk but as I did she ignored me and walk away.

[EternallyCorrect]

You don’t really know until you actually approach, and you’ll have to approach multiple women before you find one that likes you back.

Some will just not be interested, some will have boyfriends. Some may have had a guy make a rude approach and they’re pissed off, or they could be pissed off for any other reason and not interested in talking, even if on another night they might have been open to it.

Rejection is inevitable, and trying to snipe one girl is a mistake. You have to approach multiple women.

[cth96190]

Look up what the dating gurus refer to as choosing signals. You will find videos about that on YouTube.
I suggest Marnie Kinrys and Deanna Lorraine. Marnie’s podcast called Ask Women has an episode or three about choosing signals.

For myself, I have no idea. 🤣
There may be men who have been less successful with women than I was, but not many.

[EternallyCorrect]

Nah Marnie’s advice is terrible.

[jennifer_bloom]

You could begin by introducing a line of conversation and see if she responds to that because a girl who is open to being your friend is unlikely to reject you in a rude way and a woman who ignores you isn’t necessarily disgusted with you, she might have a boyfriend or a busy schedule.

[On_cloud_wine]

You wait until she locks eyes with you, smiles, and turns away. If some random guy just approached me, some random guy that I didn’t even know was in the room, I’d take a step back too

[On_cloud_wine]

I would wait until this special glance happened twice. Remember, she’s just taking things in and observing right now. Wait for that glance

[lsksni]

If there is a large group, avoid.
If she has an un-inviting stance (closed arms, frowned face) avoid.
If another guy's hitting on her, avoid.
If she is incredibly cold or rude to people around her, avoid.

[FilmGuy93]

If she smiles at you and gestures for you to come over. Other wise, don't approach. Women are on their guard in clubs and bars. It's better to let her do the initiating.

[cryscrys1]

You never know because with girls language a “ no no” means sure yeah ! So you just have to go out there and see how things flow be yourself too

[Pyrofox]

Girls gossip avoid large groups as they got a hive mind 90% of the time.

[boggboss]

Its always OK to be honest and will for the most part be hit or miss

[RawIronhide]

It's never ok. If a girl were to expect you to pick them up in that circumstance. that be expecting you to do something completely unusual and impolite. That's not to say it'll never work, it's just unusual.

[exitseven]

If she is not brandishing a loaded Glock then it is probably okay to approach her.

[kaylaS91]

If you’re approaching a girl by simply coming up to her and starting a conversation, timing shouldn’t be an issue. Or rather if it is, then she’s simply not interested.

[bigpauly]

It's always ok to approach as long as you don't do it in some aggressive way or somethings. You won't know if they are interested unless you try

[InferiorElegy]

You don't, that's the problem. Just take your chance and it can only go one of two ways.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

It's a party, the context of the environment IS your permission to approach.

[michiganMan6969]

She will stand on a table and CAAAAAAWWWWWW really loud. This is a traditional mating call.

[Anonymous]

It's never okay so just don't do it
If you don't heed my advice then you'd better get used to prison food

[Charliefretz329]

Just approach her and take a chance... 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Waldoe]

those are the chances you take, get used to it

[Anonymous]

Short answer, it’s not, ever, don’t do it.

[Relux47]

Never