Can't figure this girl out? What is she looking for?

[Anonymous]

We met on Hinge. She asked me out and then we swapped numbers. We've been on 2 dates. We don't talk much at all except to set up the next date. The date goes fine, but then we don't speak throughout the week. We may exchange a couple of messages if one of us messages the other during the week. The conversation over text is just general chit chat and nothing deep or personal at all. But we do talk about personal things when we meet up. Does it sound like she doesn't want to date?

[Anonymous]

Ask her specifically what she is looking for right now. People often skip around this and just “go with the flow” but it’s like the blind leading the blind. You have no idea what’s going on and too reluctant to ask for clarification out of fear of whatever. Just be straightforward so you know if you’re working towards something or wasting each other’s time. I also think it’s important to note that she may be trying to spread her time amongst different men, including yourself. You two met online, there’s a lot of potential candidates out there and she might still be exploring her options, and this could be why you aren’t hearing much from her through the week.

[Guy13]

Sounds like you need to use ☎️ instead of text. She don’t like that 💩. Most girls prefer to hear a voice if they are into you as a potential boyfriend. It is a great way to determine your standing.

Dead text and no voice call is a for sure… NOT Interested sign

[MiamiMadness]

If she like that after two days you should try another match home slice