Why would a girl who's had a bunch of sex with a guy on a vacation say that she feels like sex again before she leaves might make things complicated?

[Rab1901]

Why would things be complicated? She said something about her feelings like how they've calmed down, but if she has sex again before she leaves, her feelings might be complicated. She said she felt it was rushed and would like when there is more time and wants to meet again sometime in the near future.

Someone please explain.

[ShellyB]

What is the timeline were you in a relationship before the vacation, was it just the two of you on vacation, how long was the vacation?

Without knowing more, I will guess that she was in "vacation mode" not thinking about the future and then with the vacation ending, she is thinking about the future again, and that affects how she views the relationship (basically she does not want to continue it in "normal life" when she goes home).

But I really don't know much about the situation so I might be way off!

[Rab1901]

I met her there. A week. I think you're basically right. She was cheating on her man.

[katiesmuff]

Like you she was just having some fun and wants it ended before feelings step in and complicates things for her. I was exactly like that as I liked and wanted the sex, but had no interest in a relationship beginning

[D_Bone_Steak]

I would bet money this chick has a guy and that's why the sudden weird behavior. I'm going to say she's probably cheating on some dude with you and that should explain everything. Welcome to how chicks really are.

[Rab1901]

Wow I'm impressed with your conviction. She actually did tell me she was cheating on her husband. Smh

[D_Bone_Steak]

It's happened to me more than a few times. I'll be thinking I have found wonderful girlfriend material one day and then find out some hard truths the next. I got too many stories like this one I could tell.

[Guy13]

Bonding is not an option and doing that crested a longing for another in Present

[Bethany22]

Maybe she's afraid to get too emotionally attached to you

[AlperEngin93]

or maybe she doesn't like the sex lol

[Baredog]

I'm thinking you got played, used or she doesn't think you're as good at it as you do.