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There are so many other things to go with this question I mean on the first day probably already know this person and you know who they are what they're all about that's the reason why you want to date them and if there becomes a moment to where you're making out and you know that she's not that type of girl and if she was to give in to you and say okay I would respect her more just for the fact and around about where she's telling me how much she likes me but at the same time I'm not only want to respect her but I wanted to respect myself and when things are going hot and heavy you don't want to stop but I mean you have to because you're going to prove to her in that moment Who You Are it's just not up to the girl is it two way street and I guarantee you that every time somebody goes on a date a first date they're going to come across this it's going to happen since you know it's going to happen prepare yourself for it but you can also make it fun to wear it's not like the girl is making you wait I mean you don't have to fuck literally make love fuck screw whatever you could be down to your underwear and panties and still get that girl off like she's never got out before with a touch with a kiss by being yourself and don't put her in that position to where she has to make that call you both can be making out you both could be so turned on and there's been times where I've made a joke about it and said no if I do this tonight with you will you respect me in the morning and no matter what it said because I do it and it's kind of funny the way I would say it but I would have a hold of her hips and I'd have her on top of me and I'd be sliding her hips forward and back I would just say no penetration if you want this it's no penetration but I'm going to make you come like crazy you know there has to be boundaries and rules for the guy and for the girl the way the question is asked it is either have sex or she makes him wait three days that feels like a punishment I think with some guys especially guys that are not into it for the relationship so like I said there's many many other things that go with this question I personally believe that it's a two-way street and I personally want to make her feel comfortable and not have to make that decision and if things are hot and heavy I'm going to take him hot and heavy I'm going to keep her going but I'm also going to be a smart-ass and say something stupid like will you respect me and I will do this but no penetration but you have to know me to understand what I'm trying to say because it's funnier than funny I'm going to respect the girl anyway that's the reason why I took her out of the date is because I like her if I didn't like her and if I didn't want to be with her I would not have went on a date with her but this is a good question
What it says to me is she doesn't really see me as worth much.
I'd see it as I'm the guy she's SETTLING FOR but isn't crazy for me. If she's enthusiastic and super turned on by me, she'll want it just as much as I do right away.
If she isn't giving up the kitty right away, I move on because I have way more options that are probably hotter than her who will jump in the sack immediately.
See this is a tricky one to navigate. On one hand, yes we wanna make sure that you are not just opening your legs to every guy (or girl) that comes your way to ensure that you're a safe bet for a relationship. On the other hand, there comes a point to where you refusing to have sex with us causes us to believe that you're not really attracted to us. And I'll throw in another factor here. Many guys are aware that a lot of girls have given sex freely to other guys way sooner in like a week or two weeks, while you're having them wait for a whole month or three months for the sex. And that comes across as extremely disrespectful and insulting to us because you were willing to do it sooner with those other guys, but not with us, and the we have to jump through hoops and bend over backwards for something that those other guys got for free. So like I said, it's tricky to navigate.
If he's just waiting to have sex with you and counting down the dates, then he really doesn't value you at all. It's just a waiting game to him. He might wait months if he really wants to fuck you badly.
Personally I don't agree with the respect to sex philosophy, more dates don't mean more respect, its more time and money getting to know someone depending on what she does for fun
But ask yourself what exactly do you accomplish in waiting?
I waited 3 months, then gave up and ghosted her. We were at the mall and she went to use the bathroom. By the time she came out, I was gone forever.
I make a woman wait at least 3 months, this is non-negotiable. I will go all the way short of intercourse or anal up to the 3-month mark. Once that point is reached, it is her decision.
I'm fine to wait even until marriage if the girl is good
3 dates is too soon. If she doesn't make me wait until we are engaged then she isn't wife material.
Three dates works for me.
I am waiting till marriage for sex, so...
Yeah. The third date is acceptable.
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