Girls, do you think you could like a guy for his personality if he mainly like you for your body as a object rather than your own personality?

[Anonymous]

[Wintergirl21]

Nope. Because him liking me only for my body already says a lot about his personality. And it's not a good image he's projecting. Does that mean if one day I put on weight due to stress or if I get into an accident and lose my looks, he won't like me anymore? How am I going ot trust or like someone with the high risk that he will lose interest in me so easily? It's like setting ourselves up for heartache if we like someone like that.

[Little_Bumblebee]

No, my wacko and weird personality is my selling point whenever a guy has been into me.

If I was seen as an object then I wouldn't want to be with him.

[mandyfire98]

If he only sees me as an object then I already hate his personality

[Anonymous]

Our face and body is why they approach us in the first place. I know a lot of girls with great personalities who guys don't ask out.