Should I ask her?

[Anonymous]

Like this girl i met. Met her in person then matched on tinder and then started just flirting and chatting. One day I got invited over and we basically Netflix and Chilled, but nothing heavy. Ended up sleeping over and got kissed goodbye and texted to see that I made it home safe. Two days later, texted to see if she wanted to go out. Got ghosted for a week and then she apologized for being MIA and that she was in an accident (not a lie). Asked if she was good, and if she needed company to take her mind off stuff. And it’s been 4 days with no reply. I know she is a bad replier but still. What I want to know is if I should ask If she wants to hang or go out again or if we are just gonna keep flirting. I just kinda wanna know what’s happening.

[kylee2437]

Ghosting isn’t by accident situation. Accident implies that a person didn’t mean to do something. If a person has you as a priority, they will keep you in the loop or at least give a valid explanation as to why they didn’t reply to you for that long. I wouldn’t entertain this. Leave her alone until she gives you the exact energy you are looking for, especially because I’m sure she wasn’t like this before you two hooked up and everything.

[OrhanKultigin]

can you follow me back

[SecretsofKB]

Honestly, if you do choose to keep talking to her, just lower your expectations when waiting for a reply. But maybe if you ask her out, you may become a priority.

[Guy13]

How can you love outside of Phileo in this dynamic? Eros does not work in Purpose, Form, and/or Function. You must mean a good girl buddy/friend. Sorry if misreading.

[Nikki1989]

Keep trying with her. She might have good reasons for being MIA.