What's your opinion?

[Anonymous]

Does he think I don't care or like him? What're some of the attitudes from ladies that make you think they're not interested

[Summeroflove]

I don’t know what he thinks. If you seem uninterested. Ignore me. Standoffish. Don’t really talk to me or give short responses. If I made a move and she rejected me or she gave me a indirect answer but did not seem to want to make any effort in planning something.

I mean. There is a lot of things. That make me think. Ehhh she doesn’t seem to like me.

[Asker]

What if I'm usually texting first but he often replies with partial flirtatious message and it's only when I go MIA befire he initiates a conversation

[Summeroflove]

I don’t know. Ask him out and see if he feels the same

[Asker]

On a date or in a relationship?

[Summeroflove]

Depends. If you’re dating him already? If not on a date

[Asker]

We're distances away from each other
He asked me out recently when he came to my state but didn't make it either

[Summeroflove]

I don’t know. He does not seem to show interest. Did he stand you up or did he tell you he was not going to make it?

[Summeroflove]

If he was interested he would try to make something work. If he seems to have given up on it. Maybe it’s not meant to be.

[Asker]

Kinda stood me up
He texted earlier saying he wanted to change the time and I didn't agree...
Now I called and he asked me to let out my anger on him

[Summeroflove]

If you’re both interested you will try to make something work. I don’t know.

If you want to try for another date or not. Sometimes shit happens that people can’t control.

But standing someone up is wrong.

[Summeroflove]

Like if he doesn’t tell you and let’s you show up and he never does. Then wants a new date. I wouldn’t agree to that

[Asker]

Well I didn't show up either, am I at fault too?

[Summeroflove]

If you would have stood him up. Yeah.

[Summeroflove]

Maybe it isn’t meant to be.

[Summeroflove]

I don’t know what you want me to tell you

[Asker]

I wasn't going to stand him up... Well he would have come by my end so we leave together... I'm just asking since none of us showed up, are we to say there was no standing up?

[Asker]

I'm beginning to think it's not meant to be too

[Summeroflove]

Maybe not. You both seem to be putting the other off. If he wants a date and you can work something out.

But if you’re staring to think that. It’s probably so. Neither one of you seem that interested.

[Asker]

He's a medic; busy profession.. I'm a super indoor person

[Summeroflove]

Well. Lol. As long as he gave you notice. If he had good reason not to be on the date. People can't control that. Unless like I said he stood you up. This is wrong.

If you don’t feel it’s meant to be. Don’t pursue it

[Asker]

Thanks

[Asker]

I do appreciate your timw

[Summeroflove]

You’re welcome

[Guy13]

Lack of eye contact, shy that is perceived as don’t talk because she does not like him, always around girls and not alone inviting interaction are a few to start…

[Asker]

I'm the shy type so eye contact is not something I love.

[Guy13]

You are going to have to Risk and engage or remain without boyfriend. You give off negative vibes…

[Asker]

Engaging in eye contacts? I can only do them until I become conscious of it, funnily staring at a point continuously gives me eye burns

[Guy13]

Talk the whole deal. Engage. Push past Shy, you can do it ‼️

[Asker]

Wow gonna try

[Guy13]

💪….

[Asker]

👌😊

[spartan55]

Number #1 by a longshot is any variation of the stupid ass 'hard to get' bullshit. Bye.

[Asker]

Pardon

[spartan55]

What

[Asker]

Please I didn't get you

[spartan55]

You don't know what "playing hard to get" means?

[Asker]

I do

[spartan55]

Then what don't you get?

[Wise4myage]

They ignore me or act standoffish, and have a negative attitude.

[Asker]

Well I don't know if I do give off such vibes but I just really try be careful before any of us falls

[CrisFantazyNFury]

they dont talk with you

[Asker]

I talk to him but I'm beginning to feel he might think I don't care