What's your opinion?

[Anonymous]

A month ago i cheated on my boyfriend with his friend.

He knew that i cheated on him because his other friend told. But after he knew i confess what I did and I tell him what the reasons why i did that.

He accept me again, we continue our relationship even though it's hard to fix it. He had a trust issue to all his friends because of me. But now he's a little bit fine.

But me everyday felt guilt I can't accept myself for what I did, everyday I cried, I think to hurt myself. No one knows what i feel, no one know that I cried every day. I show them that I'm a strong, I show them that I'm happy which is not true.

I always blame my self and i can't accept what I did. I don't want to tell him that i suffer everyday because i don't him to hurt anymore. I want him to be happy. Just be happy.

(Help me knows what the best thing to do to get over it)

[Fireguy17]

Yeppers, did you think it would turn out like a Hallmark movie?
You now get to deal with the consequences of your actions, much like he does every time he sees you and him.
It will probably never go away.
I hope it was the most mind blowing sex you have ever had and that would still not be worth it.
If it was me, I would have done the same thing that I did when I found that my ex-wife and an ex-girlfriend had cheated on me, I left and never looked back.
And neither one of them ended up with the guy that they were doinking.
That is one thing I never did was ask either one of them if it was worth it.
So I'll ask you, was it worth it?

[ZackBan]

If it's sympathy you're looking for I'm afraid you'll find none here.
You seem to be aware, or at least have learned, the true meaning of consequences.

And unfortunately if he's still hurt because of it and you're tearing yourself up over it maybe the best thing is to rip the band-aid off and break up. Let him feel pain let him recover let him heal.

And you do the same. And maybe come of it a better person than you where when you cheated

[rosemilk]

let him go so he can be happy and find someone who won't cheat on him with his best friend. that was pretty low, but you know your mistake now, apologized, and you'll live with guilt for a very long time. maybe get some therapy to help this move along

[LeeTina]

You should tell him your inner thoughts with a sincere attitude and friendly language. Language is a good way of communication for humans to enhance emotional bridges.

[RavVid]

From what I've seen of life, cheating is a catastrophic fail. You cannot make the relationship whole again.

Technically there can be forgiveness but the betrayal cannot be forgotten and the relationship will always have that poison in it.

I accept that you regret and it is good you feel guilt for doing something wrong but what I think is unimportant and you can't expect absolution from GaG.

[boggboss]

All u can do is accept u did a shitty thing and not try to find a reason yo justify it or why u did it just accept it was a bad choice and try to not do it again

[Billlewis]

I wouldn't feel too guilty about it if I were you. Most guys tend to handle something like this fairly well.

[_no_one_]

I would say time and acceptance heals but you really should talk to him and get proper closure.

[askthis56]

something happens go on your life