Is this girl being friendly or is she interested?

[Anonymous]

There is this girl that i have a crush on and i get nervous around her.

she noticed that and has asked me multiple times why i get nervous but i never really told her why, due to being scared. She then asked me if i feel nervous around girls.

She has also asked me if i have a crush on someone and if i have a girlfriend. I told her no.

The next day our social circle went to a club and she took me outside where we were talking normally. She grabbed my upper arm and pulled me towards her until we were really close together side by side with her facing me. Then she put her hand on my abdomen.
I’m not sure what she was trying to do and at that point she wasn't talking anymore and just looked at me while i was looking down at the ground because i got nervous.

why did she do this?

[Cassie08]

"She grabbed my upper arm and pulled me towards her until we were really close together side by side with her facing me. Then she put her hand on my abdomen."

You watched her do that and you're still wondering if she likes you 😑? Of course she likes you 🤣! She must have liked you for a very long time too. That seems like a bit of an act of desperation tbh. She must have been going "I've given him all of the hints and I can't last an longer" 😝. That's why she attacked you like that 😁.

Good luck.

[Asker]

What other hints did she give me? You mean the nervous and girlfriend questions?

Well one thing i forgot to mention is that when she put her hand on my tummy i got nervous and leaned away so her hand didn't touch me anymore. She noticed that and put her hand again on my tummy.

[Cassie08]

Yeah, those exact hints.

Wait, she put her hand BACK? Aww ❤️

[Cassie08]

(Wait, I don't know why that word has gone blue)

[Asker]

Yea she put her hand back when i leaned away. That was very gutsy of her in my opinion. At least thats what i think, because if i ever put my hand on a girl like that and she moved away, i wouldn't touch her again.

Why did u say awww by the way?

[sassy_receptor]

it sounds like she has some interest in you but you’ll never know until you ask

[Asker]

I’m scared that she will get angry or something or make fun of me. That’s why I’m waiting for signs from her. But I don't know if the stuff i said are signs.

[sassy_receptor]

i think they are

[Asker]

Since you are a girl, would you do this to someone you dont know?

In my case i dont know her well, we aren't even friends.

[WarrenH]

Dude, seems like she kinda likes ya.

In my experience, never expect a woman to admit they like you, nor to be able to ‘explain’ their feelings to you. Doesn’t matter if they’re 19 or 39...

In the next couple days, maybe you should go out with her, tell her your feelings, and then try to kiss her.

[Asker]

The thing is I’m waiting for solid signs first before i ask her out, if i even have the guts to do that. If she gives me signs it would make it easier.

[WarrenH]

She already has given you signs. It’s your move; if you don’t try, you will be forced to masturbate, instead of potentially having steamy sex.

[Asker]

What does she want from if she gave me signs? Relationship or sexual stuff?

[MrNameless]

Yes, she likes you. I think she was expecting a kiss dude.

[Asker]

A kiss when we dont even know each other? We never also really talked besides the stuff i said.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like she could be into you, so make an effort to find out.

[Asker]

How?

[Guy13]

Did you kiss

[Asker]

Nope

[Guy13]

How about get in her space and break that 3 feet space barrier-thing. Grab and hold for like 5 second and let go of her hand... or if you sense she likes then hold hands. Baby Steps...