Is this girl interested or just really friendly?

[Jamrockwolf123]

Recently I’ve been getting attention I’m not used to and I read into a lot of things. But I’m also oblivious unless something is straight in my face. It’s a weird combination

I started going to the quiktrip by my friends house. Usally I get the same thing and noticed a new girl. I ordered my food and when I got it she was smiling. And said that she made it with love when she noticed I got the food.

Next time I came in I didn’t order anything just came to get a drink and she saw me and said hey super happy like.

She has a nice personality but it also seems she goes out of her way to get my attention when she sees me. She also asks how I’m doing sometimes.

I came in a week later she saw me ordering and asked me what are you getting? Same thing? With the same smile.

She said next time just order it don’t even worry about paying I got you.

I came back and she was pretty busy instead of one sandwich like usual she made me two.

I asked her name and decided to come back and give her my number on a piece of paper. She was holding a box stocking taquitos and I put It on the table cause I didn’t wanna throw her off and she said thank you.

So here it gets confusing.. I never got a call or text. Over the past month I’ve been in a few times but made it a quick in and out. I assumed maybe I did to much. I’ve seen her once or twice stare/glance my direction.

I went in with my friend recently. She was talking to a coworker and she greeted me and made a couple jokes. I was confused cause I don’t know if she ever saw the paper.

My friend said it was possible she got busy threw it away thinking it was trash or forgot at work.

Friday I came in after work and she saw me and said Hey Friend ! . She was cashiering this time. She said it very happy and upbeat.

She asked me how I was and I did the same.

At this point I’m confused because I thought maybe I messed up but I guess not.

Should I leave it alone or ask for her instagram?

lol am I tripping?

[Diodoro]

Didn't read the entirety of this post. Just adding some broad Strokes that is pretty much universally true for a tracking flirting.

If a girl doesn't like you on some level she won't spend her time around you. They find a way to be in your presence if they like you. If it's not a required part of their job or they're seeking to talk to their friend who is right next to you. Safe bet this is a good first sign

If she's making good eye contact with you. Good sign
Smiling with the cracks showing on the sides of her eyes. Good sign.
If she stands closer inside your bubble. Good sign
If she's more squared up with you. Good sign
If she's physically touching you. Good sign
If she responds positively to you touching her back in the same way you touched her. Good sign
If you get closer to her and she Leans more into it. Good sign

There's a lot of decent body language cues that will always happen when a girl is attracted. Words are good and all. But a lot of the time a girl might just say sexual shit because that's her personality/sense of humor. Or bating you to see how thirsty you are and if you're "safe" so to speak to be that way with and not have you get too sexually aggressive

[Jamrockwolf123]

Thank you

[Slartybartfast]

Playing games, best to avoid women who act like you must chase them.

It's a setup for abuse and a hard fall, don't play that game.

Remember, making you chase is a form of emotional abuse, avoid women who act like they are some sort of prize.

[daisy_jones]

She does seem interested, I don't know if it's in a romantic way or just a friendly one cause some people are just friendly like that to people they see often.

But if I were you, I'd try one more time. Ask for her Instagram or even, if you feel like it, ask her to get a coffee after she's done with work. You won't know how she feels for sure unless you ask, so... do it!!!

Good luck!

[Jamrockwolf123]

Bet I’ll do that !

[jennifer_bloom]

My friend worked at a restaurant and she told me, that good looking woman are hired at establishments to attract male customers who want to date them. A lot of them are forced to lie and say they like you and hide the fact they have boyfriends to draw more male clients to the establishment.

[rcljr]

Ask her for her number

[kaylealealea]

ask for her insta

[Relux47]

She’s being friendly