Do you think I am kind of failure?

[Anonymous]

There was a girl who liked me for a long time. We became friends and after some time we got closer. I asked her out and she said yes. We kissed few times ( i think kisses were fine after first one she was like she wanted to hold my hand all the time and really affectionate). But then her friends said she is complicated, they’re confused of her and that day she was a bit distant. I asked if she really want to go out and she said yes. So we went out and then when we met at the party she was again a bit distant. They i texted her and she said she doesn’t want a relationship now and she is busy now. I feel real bad about this, like I can't even get a girl who liked me, iam not good enough etc. I don’t know what i did wrong.

[XHopelessRomanticX]

You didn't do anything wrong. This sounds like one of those "Right person wrong time" scenarios. She's not in the right headspace to be in a relationship right now. Best to either give her some space until she is ready, or move on to somebody else who is ready.

[exitseven]

This is just something that happens. When you have two people trying to make some kind of relationship it is often an awkward occurrence. There are so many things that can go wrong it really is a miracle that so many people are in actual relationships. You did not fail it just wasn't the right time.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[boggboss]

Don't be a idiot that the feiend said she is complicated and then it happened anyway shows she has issues and is not in the right headspacr to date it has nothing to do with I

[boggboss]

You*

[devilish-cutie]

you did nothing wrong, she has some issues, let her be for now