If a girl's voice gets very soft when she apologizes to a guy, how does feel about the guy?

[Anonymous]

Recently, I (23 year old male) and a female co-worker (22 year old) ran into each other during work. She was startled. I immediately apologized and so did she. I apologized in a normal voice, while her voice was very soft when she apologized. Did I creep her out?

[Meamdmyself]

It depends:
If that's her voice tone most of the time, this means it's just how she talks
If she usually doesn't talk like that, maybe it's cause she was just startled
If you know each other, I don't think she thought of you as a creep, but if you don't talk, who knows
Maybe she's just shy

There are many possibilities

[Asker]

her voice tone is a lot higher than this most of the time. Her voice became very soft for some reason.

[Asker]

Why did she get startled? I'm just curious. Do you think she likes the guy?

[Asker]

Did her voice become very soft because she likes the guy and therefore got nervous?

[Meamdmyself]

Maybe she just got startled for no reason. How did you run into each other, like did you bumped into each other, or you just saw one another

[Asker]

we bumped into each other.

[Asker]

She was basically whispering when she apologized to me.

[Meamdmyself]

It is a possibility that she was just startled. Maybe she was just tired, I don't know the full story, so i don't know if I can help

[Asker]

I made eye contact with her a few weeks ago before this incident. She returned eye contact and tried her best to hold back a smile. She couldn't control herself and eventually smiled to herself. I hope I didn't creep her out.

[Meamdmyself]

How did she smile to herself? Like she stopped making eye contact and then smiled?

[Asker]

I looked away first. I then looked back 1 second later. She was smiling to herself.

[Meamdmyself]

Damn, I do the same as the girl when I'm near the one I like. From experience, I can say that is HARD to not smile when you made eye contact with the one you like. Maybe she doesn't like you, maybe it's for another reason, I don't know

[Meamdmyself]

Maybe she remembered something and started to smile. It's different for everyone, but who knows

[Asker]

your answer implies that you think this girl likes me because she smiled to herself after briefly making eye contact with me.

[Meamdmyself]

Kind of... From how you described it. She could've smiled for another reason. If you two don't usually talk, there are many reasons why she was startled and why she was smiling. I'm sorry if that wasn't any help

[Asker]

I just feel as though she's attracted to me because girls usually don't have any reaction when they catch a guy looking at them and they're not interested. In my experience, girls just do not pay attention to guys whom they're not interested in.

[Meamdmyself]

That's right. Girls do not pay attention to someone they do not like.
Sometimes, girls can smile at someone even if they don't have any feelings for them.
Now that's different in every situation.

[art84]

Maybe she is just being shy and didn't want to talk loud?

[Sparkie460]

She seems a little bashful or shy

[Asker]

Is that a good sign?

[Sparkie460]

It's not a good or bad sign. It's just how some people are. It just takes a little longer for them to get comfortable with people

[In_Trance]

she probably hates him

[Anonymous]

No, that was here normal voice.

[Asker]

Based on how she talks to everyone else, her normal voice is a lot louder.

[Opinion Owner]

Well maybe you did startle her.