Why would a girl text first then leave your response on read?

[Anonymous]

Just looking for validation? Making sure they still have power over us? lmao

[D_Bone_Steak]

Yup... validation and narcissistic power over others. I wouldn't jump to that conclusion right away though...

I would most likely assume they have lost interest, probably sucking on some dude's dong, and will get back to looking for attention from me when she hits a dry spell, or she works too much.

[mlvrjohnconnor]

Looking for validation, and see if they can stir up your feelings, even negative feeling feeds their ego. Just ignore her

[Asker]

Yeah that's what I'm gonna do. I replied to her message yesterday but I haven't heard from her since (been left on read). I might either leave her on read or delivered next time she texts me.

[Anonymous]

Yeah they would, if the purpose of the text was just to see if you're still alive/there.

[Asker]

Hate when people do that. We have not texted each other in like 3 weeks and then she texts me out of the blue, asks me how I'm doing. I replied after half an hour and well, it took her almost half a day to read it (and on top of that, she left me on read).

The ball is in her court. I was trying to move on due to her mixed signals and she texted me out of nowhere. I don't even know why she texted me in the first place (other than asking how I was), but I hope she didn't expect me to lead the conversation... Because well, she's the one who reached out, not me!

[Opinion Owner]

Totally agree. It’s very very annoying. Don’t feel pressured to respond.

[Asker]

I'll probably leave her on read next time she texts me (just like she did for no reason). Sucks because I was actually glad to see that she had texted me after a few weeks (she had given me mixed signals so I had stopped texting her back then). When I noticed that it was taking her a long time to read my message, I thought "Oh shit, here we go again". I got no time for her BS, I gave her like 2 chances and she still wasted them. I've been more than fair with her.

[Opinion Owner]

amen. no time for that game playing. time to care for yourself thank you

[Kaneki05]

Just do the same back.

[Asker]

I guess I'll just wait until she texts me again. I'll act like I don't care about the fact that she didn't reply and when she does text me again (she will, eventually), I'll probably just leave her on read. I'm really starting to see her true colors and I don't even want to reach out to her.

[Kaneki05]

Nah just don't reply to it. Give what ya get.

[Asker]

Yeah that's what I said, I'll just leave her on read! But good advice!