Girls, Is the term spankable offensive to girls? And what do you girls think it means?

[WilliamPamer446]

[Rosexøxø]

Used to be. Thought I’d was ownership stuff.

It’s not now- just meaning the ass is plushy or so. It’s quite jiggly-spankable, and attractive/arousing.

If a guy said this to me, I’d hear how he said it and reflect on both of our individual interactions. If I feel he’s a disrespectful guy- I won’t accept it. If he seems just admiring and aroused by female beauty, then it’s a win-win. 😁👌

[Rosexøxø]

Although.. not all girls know when a guy means well with it, and not all guys know how girls tend to interpret it, so that’s the reason for the misunderstandings and offense/drama.

If it’s a good guy and his girl gets offended, he can clarify how he meant it, and establish he didn’t mean it disrespectfully. After the clarification and second attempt- and she disliked it, then discuss it and be prepared to let the spankable terminology go (maybe substitute it with a “nicer” word? lol, compromise, or continue if she likes it.

For the girls, I can’t tell them how to receive it, only to say to them, get all the facts first, and weigh the character of the guy, before making any absolute decisions; etc.

[WilliamPamer446]

I never really seen this term much or used it a lot myself so I dont know

and waht do you mean about ownership stuff why did u connect it to ownership stuff

[Rosexøxø]

;-; it’s a society thing

Shouldn’t be the case

[Rosexøxø]

It’s being reversed anyways

[Rosexøxø]

There’s good people who don’t uphold that meaning and good people who defy it etc.

[WilliamPamer446]

when I ask sexual questions it doesn't mean i am going to hurt or disrespect women I get overwhelm when people think I am trying to

[Rosexøxø]

Oh I didn’t think you were 😌🤜🤛

[Anonymous]

I’m guessing it means the person you’re saying it to has a nice butt and it would be great to spank? I wouldn’t find that offensive if my boyfriend said it to me, as he spanks me on a regular basis. But if some random guy said it to me in public, I would be creeped out.

[WilliamPamer446]

Ah im autistic and I wanted girls insight on this because I wanted to see things from there perspective. This is not a phrase I hear often, mostly online but sometimes celebrities I think. I heard it in the 2004 film I Robot where Shia Labeauf talks about his new girlfriend having a "hot ass spankable" or something like that to Will Smiths Detective Spooner and it made me wonder

[WilliamPamer446]

I wanna koow all the nuances and what girls think it means

[WilliamPamer446]

I think concept before the common words neurotypicals will use

[Opinion Owner]

Celebrities tend to get away with a lot more than regular people, so I think that just because you heard it in a movie or online, doesn’t mean that it’s okay to say to a random woman on the street.

[WilliamPamer446]

I wouldn't I knwo thats dumb

[Anonymous]

Not offensive, but incredibly childish.

[WilliamPamer446]

Can you explain why you think that it is childish?