Did you think you were getting your hoodie back?

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Guys don’t be ridiculous when you let a girl borrow your hoodie when she’s cold. That’s you giving her your hoodie. It’s hers now. Did you guys really think you were getting it back? Silly boys

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1 y

I’m starting to get why so many guys are single. Boys if a girl is chilly you give her your hoodie if she doesn’t love it and think it’s ultra soft and comfy she’ll give it back if she loves it and it’s cuddly she’s keeping it it’s her hoodie now!!! Be a gentleman and respect that it’s hers now! Be a protector let her have the soft cuddly warm hoodie it looks cutier on her anyway

[FilmGuy93]

I might see my hoodie again, but its being will be fundamentally altered by the adulteration of feminine essence into the fabric. By "fabric" I don't mean the cloth the garment is crafted from, but the character of the matter itself, which had previously been imbued by masculinity.

When the nature of a garment has changed, so too does the fundamental spirit and utility of garment. Its purpose will have changed. It can no longer content providing me warmth in inclement weather, because it knows that its primary function is no longer to serve me, as its master. It not a betrayal, but simply an evolution, and a more inevitable evolution than it could ever know. The character has transitioned away from service to me. And in that transition, lies the fundamental death of a necessary, but ultimately superfluous relationship in the development of "the boyfriend hoodie."

[CharlieDMX]

Lol. Learned this the hard way. I've made my peace now. It was a white Real Madrid hoodie

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

No it’s her Real Madrid hoodie

[CharlieDMX]

I didn't say it was mine. Not anymore :(

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Be happy it has a great home now…. With her

[CharlieDMX]

I am :)

[Jacobbbb]

You right. My hoodie is long gone and it's never coming back 😭

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

At least you know

[Jacobbbb]

Learned it the painful way 😔

[Pudsmucker]

Why is it that women's clothing is also lightweight and frilly and it freezes women's bodies. They continue to buy the stylish clothing. Women know that men's clothing warm they have a tendency latch on to their hoodies. Men continue to give their girl their jackets over the years.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Yes because we need to look cute sometimes a hacker or sweater doesn’t go with what we’re wearing so when it’s gets cold at night just gimmie you’re

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Yours*

[Pudsmucker]

I've learned long and time ago what is yours is hers and hers is hers..

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Correct

[Mangospacho]

This is a good test of the relationship because if he’s just in this for the short term then he is going to have to get his hoodie back before he terminates the relationship but if just lets the hoodie go with you then he understands he can come and see the hoodie whenever he wants and he can use it whenever he sees you and that’s why it’s a good indicator of the relationship. He passed the hoodie test.

[Havthrills]

Never. It's gone as soon as it's handed over.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Exactly

[NathanDavis]

there are four hoodies out there, that are no longer mine

[Wish4UrB00ty]

I have fought hard for my hoodies! I think only two girls ever escaped with my hoodie over the years.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Just get a new hoodie that’s hers now

[Wish4UrB00ty]

I would now for sure. But when I was younger I was like oh heck no! Lol! And the two girls who did get away with stealing my hoodies lived quite a ways away from me so they just had to leave. Lol!

[AngryCarl]

Giving a girl your hoodie is cheaper than giving her an engagement ring, but it indicates the same commitment. As long as she has your hoodie she is your girl.

[Summeroflove]

Lol…. Letting someone barrow something is different then gifting something.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

If you let a girl wear your hoodie because she’s cold that’s you giving her the hoodie. It’s hers now

[Summeroflove]

I’m careful who I give stuff to and if I can’t trust someone. I might give them a piece of junk.

[Summeroflove]

It’s the problem with being nice. Some people take being nice for granted and I just ain’t putting up with people like that anymore.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

If that’s what you think of the girl 🤷‍♂️

[Summeroflove]

It’s like letting someone use a pencil and they never give it back. You start giving them crappy ones

[Summeroflove]

What do you mean? If I give someone something to use people know I want it back.

Trust me. People know when I’m loaning them something and giving them something. They’re not entitled to run off with my stuff especially if I don’t know them well.

[Summeroflove]

I don’t do that to them. So they better not to me

[art84]

I never given my hoodie to a girl before as I don't wear my hoodie often. Though wouldn't mind if was an old hoodie that I didn't want anymore.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Do you get many girls?

[art84]

No I don't sadly.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Maybe you figured out why. Maybe treat them like they’re special and you’d have better luck. If she wants you hoodie just give her the hoodie so she’s not cold and she sees you care and are at least to some degree willing to protect her

[User3191989]

If it's a hoody I know longer want, sure

I'm getting one in the mail soon, brand new, exclusive to someone, no way will I ever give that up. I'm going to wear it until it fades

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Well then you’ve lost the girl!! Omg if I was cold and you didn’t offer up your hoodie thats a red flag ! If I ask & you say no 😮 end of date and no more dates for you go find another girl to treat like that

[Juxtapose]

Why would anybody give you a hoodie when you have blatantly said you are not going to give it back?

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

@Juxtapose because I’m chilly 🥶

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

@Juxtapose you want the girl you are with to be cold?

[Juxtapose]

I'm coming back to her place later on to claim it then.

[User3191989]

Then she doesn’t deserve me

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

@Juxtapose nope it’s hers at that point she likes it it’s hers

[Juxtapose]

Then I'm taking her favorite sweater!

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

@Juxtapose why?

[Juxtapose]

Because I'm not a simp who's going to let you just take something of mine like you're entitled to it without losing something of yours in return.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

@Juxtapose being sweet and protective of a girl doesn’t make you a “simp” it makes you a “gentleman”

[Juxtapose]

To me being a simp is allowing a woman to take advantage of you in ways you would not allow a friend to, like taking your possessions. You're giving her special treatment and degrading yourself, what woman is going to respect that? If you treat a woman like a queen then she will treat you like a subject, right?

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

@Juxtapose the fact you think protecting a girl is degrading yourself really speaks volumes. I get why so many guys are single.

[Juxtapose]

The fact that you think protecting a girl implies I have to give up material possessions permanently is hilarious xD You do know the girl can just give me my shit back after she's done using it, right? Do you know how many times I have walked women around, holding umbrellas over them while I get wet? Giving them my coat to wear temporarily while I am cold?

What do you do for your man? Have you ever done any of those things? I don't fucking think so.. you're too comfortable in the submissive role that just gets to sit back and have everything handed to you on a silver platter.

[Juxtapose]

A lot of you women will never understand what us men sacrifice for you and how unappreciated we are. Your entitlement is disgusting.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

@Juxtapose yea no it’s not sacrificing for someone else is literally what protection is. I come here and get in trouble with admins for saying women should by wives again that women should take care of their man. Now I kinda get why they don’t have any interest in that. I pamper my guy all day I would never do that if he had your attitude. He’d never gotten a date. Enjoy being single I guess

[Juxtapose]

I don't agree with you being censored at all just to be clear. Shame on the admins for doing that!

I think pampering your lover is great, I just think it should be given freely rather than be something expected. My consent is important and I want my lover to respect my boundaries. If she wants something she can ask for it but she can't just take it from me.

I expect agreements such as borrowing to be honored. It's self discipline.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

@Juxtapose 🤦‍♀️ why can’t she gave it why don’t you want her to have it if she loves it and it’s comfy and warm and cozy

[Juxtapose]

No, you are not entitled to my clothes. Unless otherwise specified, borrowing is simply borrowing. If you steal my shit, I'm going to break up with you!

[Juxtapose]

Stealing is not cute, it's entitled. If I can't do the same thing to you then fuck off.

[Juxtapose]

Unless this was playful teasing to get me to meet her again, in which case why would I care?

[Pohjolan]

That's pretty selfish off one but then again, a good indicator of their personality thus saving time and effort.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Yes taking the hoodie back is selfish!!! Think about how chilly she could be

[Pohjolan]

Hoodies aren't even that warm...

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Then you shouldn’t mind that she took she things it’s extra warm and cozy

[Pohjolan]

Yeah no, I'm not interested in ghetto trash taking other people's stuff.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Your stuff is ghetto trash?

[Pohjolan]

Pretending to be stupid doesn't do you any favours.

[kellytheman]

Well if you call borrowing it doesn't mean you get to keep it. But I don't care if get it back or not I'm just glad she is not cold anymore

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

When you hand us your hoodie to wear cause it’s cold that’s you giving us your hoodie. It’s ours now

[kellytheman]

I guess I kinda understand you a little and honestly a hoodie does look cutier on her. It's also kinda sexy if it's a little bigger on her and she just wear it around like a nightie at the house.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

There ya go

[BJP21]

Or my T shirts. TF are my tshirts? LOL

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Her t-shirts lol

[BJP21]

LOL no wonder she likes seeing me shirtless.

[WhitneySnow]

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