Are women attracted to Simps?

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Simp

A mf who will defend a girl he has feelings for to the death. He will treat her like royalty, buying expensive gifts, food, and even give her his Netflix account. He will also be seen commenting stuff like “Go bestie 😍” or “Material Girl 😌” on her Instagram. While he’s treating her like an A-list celebrity she’s treating him like a fan or peasant. She’s showing her sneaky link or boyfriend the cringeworthy texts that the simp sends her. She also uses his Netflix as background noise while her real man rearranges her guts so that her parents won’t hear her cheeks getting slapped. The simp will do this just so that his crush will acknowledge him in hopes of the simp smashing or dating the girl. All the simp gets in return is “Thanks Bro” or “You’re my bestest Bestie 💙”. He will also defend a girl for being a hoe by saying, “She doesn’t do it for you” or “Leave Her Alone or I’ll fight you”. If there’s one emoji to describe a simp it’s 🤡

Simp: so what if she has 120 bodies she is a confident woman that you could never pull.

Me asf: ight simp she let the whole football, basketball, baseball, and even band team hit and yet to her you’re her bestie 4 life. You seriously bought her 300 dollars worth of lululemon, Starbucks and Chicfila, and you gave her your Netflix, Disney Plus, and paramount plus account knowing she has 3 sneaky links lmao.

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

We  all  know the answer to this, and it ain't Option A. The woman doesn't even have to be slutty. Virgins can simp men, too. Simps are just absolutely beyond pathetic, though. It's the ultimate emasculation. Selling your self-respect and dignity to a woman who wants nothing to do with you. Even at my lowest in life in my early 20s, when I was desperate for female attention and validation, I was never once a simp or spent money on random women I either just met or will never meet in person. I grew up too poor to ever be a simp. I even remember in 2011 meeting this FINE biker chick and talking to her, and her asking me out to dinner at Boston Market, and me telling her I go Dutch and her getting offended that I wouldn't be paying for her dinner and we never moved forward that. And that was the period I was at my lowest, between 20 and 25. Even when I was that desperate for love, I still wouldn't simp. But then, you have absolute super-simpsons like KennethNoisewater on here, and that DanTheMan1811 retard. Who are proud simps and think it's female empowerment to be a paypig. I honestly couldn't care less about these losers and wouldn't remember them six hours later, but the idea of being a "proud simp" completely blows my f*cking mind, and my interaction with these two chodes on this site was like a month ago, at this point.

Pegases · Accepted Answer

A lot of women are attracted to men that they can manipulate, and simps are prime prey. A simp won't question it if a woman asks him to go on vacation after just meeting her a week ago, because he's going to think she's asking to spend time with him. Additionally, the average modern woman isn't looking for a man, because a man isn't interested in a masculine woman which most modern women have become. So when a woman falls into this category, she is naturally attracted to men that will put up with her.

Emiliamazing · Accepted Answer

Women and men certainly use others to get what they want. Not every woman and not every man follow this pattern. when an individual lavishes another individual with gifts and attention in the hopes of something in return, that's their situation and problem. It's the individual, not the target, who needs to get out if the situation is not progressing in the direction he/she wants.
i'm not condoning using another individual, it's some thing that I would not do personally. Men and women do this to each other all the time, use each other for various gratifications. I don't think women are any more likely than men to date a "simp". Maturity and putting yourself in someone else's shoes can eradicate this waste of time/resources by both sexes.

dustybiker · Accepted Answer

Simp is a word that appears to be harvested by men who don’t understand men who know how to talk to woman.
Can’t understand respecting woman.
Doesn’t know how to listen to woman.
Can’t fathom agreeing with woman.
Men who would never put anyone before themself.
Won’t believe doing all these things gains the same in return back to him.

In my opinion.

So if these things make a man a “simp”. Yes. They are attractive and much more enjoyable to be around.

ManOnFire · Answer

Women are definitely not attracted to simps, they're just attracted to what simps do for them. He is pitiful, and she is a lowlife. Funny thing about it is that they actually are both really compatible because of their values, yet incompatible because he is weak and lacks confidence, and she is experienced and knows how to play people.

He ends up looking stupid a lot sooner, and she ends up looking stupid later on in life when the glitter of that lifestyle starts to fade. He eventually learns to no longer be a simp after enough experience with women, and ends up being wiser and married. She eventually learns way late in the game not to keep using dudes, but at that point she's talking about wanting good men she can no longer find.

Everything comes full circle.

YourFavoriteFriend · Answer

LMAO, no they are not!

"But dude! Some SIMPs are with girls!!!"

Yeah... and they got cheated on! When we say attracted, we are talking about people who TRULY want to be with someone. Using someone doesn't mean that you are attracted. So the fact that some SIMPs have girls who are there to use them (and again, aren't even faithful to them) doesn't say something. We all truly know that girls are not attracted to SIMPs. Of course, the term "SIMP" is overused in our days and a lot of times, someone that is called a SIMP isn't a SIMP but someone who can approach and has fun talking with women. But REAL SIMPs are of course not attractive. It makes absolute sense.

Googlemyahoo · Answer

I regard them like the ass kissing teacher pets. Used to contemplate how the teachers didn’t realize or did they? Same with simps. These days they’ll be sporting top knots, probably teach yoga with instagram pics of just themself.

That’s usually the tell for me. Anyone whose instagram is just pictures of themselves. Douchebags.

MementoMori777 · Answer

The thing with simps is that they would support a woman even when they are wrong and that's the dangerous part about it, I completely understand to protect and support the woman but if the guy has no spine to check his woman when she isn't in the right then that's no man, and of course any man would expect the same from a woman that if a man is wrong about something it's only healthy for the woman to check the man as well, they are suppose to support each other, the man is the head and the woman is the neck, she is what purports the man while the man makes the hard decisions and protects the woman, I don't believe a simp can do that but it all depends on the person

Anonymous · Answer

The word simp is stupid because part of it refers to simpleton. Other part of it modern day thinking refers to a guy who provides too much attention to a girl. Meanwhile girls want so much attention on social media. Meanwhile they’re a stupid ass bitch girls online who are pussy and remain anonymous because those girls are cowards online, their parents raised idiots for daughters. Any bitchy anonymous gag girl who reads, you know who you are I am referring to one girl in particular who insults guys online in her sad, pathetic life.

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

Absolutely not. It's nice to get attention, sure. It's nice to be worshipped, but in the bedroom. Other than that, If someone is exceedingly areeable with me for the sole purpose of my having a vagina, it's a turn off. I don't like to be doted on like that.

inhua · Answer

no but some will lie to you that they do. simps are nothing more than useful pawns that help sow division between the genders by enabling the bad behaviors of women and make men out to the bad guys for pointing out the bad behavior. simps have a tendency to throw their fellow men under the bus and as much as some women enjoy this, it is not a turn on for them.

loveslongnails · Answer

I seriously doubt any woman is "attracted" to the person who does that, but rather, might enjoy the sense of power she has to use the person. An interesting question remains; is this a mutually beneficial arrangement?

The simp chooses to do this, and gets a benefit from it, that being negative attention or humiliation. Whatever it is, the simp enjoys it. If the woman enjoys the benefits provided, is she evil or wrong for accepting them?

Let's throw out the Netflix bs and all the other interaction and ask - if a girl met an ugly looking guy and money was no object for him, and he said "I'll pay you $5k a week to call me names and humiliate me", would she be attracted to him or the money? Is he a "simp", or just paying for a fetish service? I think it's all the emotional fawning that makes the guy a simp in a woman's eyes.

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

Ofc they love simps, simps will do anything for them even if its a wrong and women LOVE THAT. And that's why most women call men incel because they are not simps.

Weapon77 · Answer

Predatory or desperate women are 100% attracted to simps. But good women, average-looking women, and hot women hate simps or see them like children or pets.

WorkingManUK · Answer

Sorry, I think you just need to go out and touch grass.
All this "simp", "thot", "incel" terminology is just so laughable and ridiculous. Like go out and meet some real people, rather talking to no-faces and bots on 4chan and Tumblr.

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

She's sending you nudes so you keep talking to her... I'm paying good money for her feet pics... We're not the same

Sevenpointfive · Answer

why don't you ask them? i saw G@G in the streets on snapchat once where they asked shit like this.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Some are attracted to the attention but not to the person who givesnit to them.

Guy13 · Answer

It’s a sad state of affairs. Obviously, it is not a healthy relationship

snackthatsmilesback · Answer

Women don't like simps and simps don't like women.

Summeroflove · Answer

Obviously men get something out of doing it. Otherwise they wouldn’t do it

FunkyMonkee · Answer

From what I can tell, they're attracted to abusive assholes.

Filthy_Immigrant · Answer

obviously no. why do you think simps turn out to be worst than incels in the long run?

ericclayton · Answer

Not at all, they just use them for the ego boost.

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