Would a woman get jealous if she heard that other woman notice me?

[Anonymous]

Hi there, I feel in love with a woman 9 years old Iv never been able to get over her she is the lady of my dreams I haven’t seen her in 4 years would she get jealous or change her mind if she heard that I’m friends with other women?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Friends? Or friends with benefits?
but I guess either way, if it’s been 4 years, doubt she’s even giving any of that any thought at all.

[Asker]

I don’t know? But 4 years ago I didn’t have my life together as I do now I’m sue that if she herd that I get other females attention she might change her mind maybe?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Trying to make someone jealous isn’t the way to get someone to change their mind about you. Being upfront and honest with how you feel about her would be best. Playing games with someone isn’t cool.

[Asker]

I know trying to make someone jealous is good but I’m curious what if? I haven’t seen them in 4 years and I miss them so bad !

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Then why don’t you start by telling her that instead of game playing that would just push her further away🤷‍♀️

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

But again,4 years, you don’t think she’s moved on by now, as maybe so should you. Anyways, but especially if you’re not ready to not play games with her🤷‍♀️

[Asker]

Iv tried moving on but I can’t stop thinking about her she appears in my dreams why would it push her away?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Because trying to make someone jealous is a shitty thing to do. Most people prefer someone being upfront and honest.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

And also if you mention how all these other women want you, she’d most likely tell you to go get one of them then, I know that’s what I’d say if someone bragging how they can get all these women out all these women want them 😊

[Anonymous]

So you aren't in a relationship with her and you haven't seen her in 4 years?
Um, I am sure should doesn’t care who you like. Unless you are trying to make her jealous?

[Asker]

Yeah just wondering if she might get jealous

[Opinion Owner]

Nope. She wouldn't get jealous. She hasn't seen you in years and you two were never dating.
She doesn't see you in a romantic light.

[Asker]

Oh I thought she might why not?

[Opinion Owner]

Because she doesn’t like you. She hasn’t seen you in 4 years. She has probably moved on with her life.

[Asker]

Could I change her way of thinking?

[Opinion Owner]

Nope. That ship has sailed a long time ago.