I sent an IG request to my crush and she deleted it, what should I do?

[Tohoshinki]

I'm so sad

[SolitarySolace]

I’ve been attempting to request to be friends with my middle school - high school crush for years and she to this day still won’t accept it… Also we used to be friends on Instagram but she made it so that her account is private. We even used to be friends in person in elementary school and I knew her parents and sisters and I even my sister knew her. I’d say give it up. She’s or worth it

[Anonymous]

I need to know more info
Does she know you exist? Your name and who you are? If not ofc she won’t accept your follow request
If yes maybe she can’t recognize your profile so when you add her for a follow request send a private DM message saying “ hi it’s Daniel whatever your name “ so she is aware this is your profile
If you want retry + send a DM mentioning it’s your profile

[SoftCliff]

Um I don't believe you can DM someone on Instagram with a private profile, unless they've already accepted your friend request

[BlueScorpio]

Gave you ever interacted with her outside of instagram? Not everyone is keen on adding strangers just to add them, especially if they don't know or never spoke to the person before. You need to publicly introduce yourself to her.

[FilmGuy93]

There’s nothing to do… just be friendly when you see her in person and move on with your life.

[coachTanthony]

Should of built some rapport with her on her posts. Likes and comments, conversations etc with her before ever sliding into a DM. Next time man.

[jennifer_bloom]

It does not mean you are unattractive, she might get 10 requests a month or have 5 guys asking her out every month, it’s not a personal attack on you if she does not seem to care, she might be busy or taken.

[menina]

I'm sorry to hear it. I guess it's time for you to move on a forget about her. Don't waste your time with someone who doesn't like you. You can find love, there are many single girls out there.

[SnowedIn]

Do nothing. I am genuinely sorry you're sad but do nothing. She's made her statement by deleting your request. Now hold your head high and move on.

[Mikeysoda]

Move on or make an in person gesture, not social media. Don't take it personally, adding or not adding someone on social media means nothing. She may have never gotten it.

[SoftCliff]

Unfortunately there's nothing you can do.. You have to accept it gracefully and move on. Unless you too guys have a common friend, so maybe he/she could introduce you to her

[xoxosilentgirl]

are you sent it to her private account thats only for close friends and family OR her public account but in private mode?

[Filthy_Immigrant]

what can you do? even if she did accepted it that still does not mean you had a chance with her by the way. you will be surprised how many crushes of mines accepted me on social media but did score with any of them

[KaiidiraX]

Nothing you can do really. Try and move on.

[Kabluie]

If you aren't already friends, that can be expected. You gotta get in the club first than you have key access.

[JosyJosy]

You should probably first be sad about it and then move on. If she doesn't even want to say hi, that should say enough.

[midnightmoon05]

That was easy…now you know then move on. At lease she didn’t drag you on.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

She's not interested.

Nothing you can do now.

[CallmeTheKnight]

Nothing. Just leave her alone. She's not interested. She doesn't like you. Stop thinking you got a chance. You never had a chance at all

[Rockstarrrrr]

Yeah it's bad but eventually, you're going to move on... So make it sooner rather than later...

[sheikalana]

Well, she has no interest in connecting with you. Respect her wishes.

[es20490446e]

What are you expecting to get from someone who doesn't want to be with you?

[aaron210419]

Move on buddy, you win some and you lose some but the world keeps on turning.

[loveslongnails]

Find a new crush because obviously, you're not hers.

[Mangospacho]

Time to move on. Don’t keep hoping she’ll change her mind either.