How can I tell if a girl is being friendly or is actually interested?

[Anonymous]

Is it the touching? What is it?

[CrazyGirl2]

When you ask her out, if she says no then she wasn’t interested! As far as mind reading? I do not know. Sometimes a girl will ask me if I like “so and so” and I knew he asked her to ask me, so if I did, I told her, if I didn’t I also told her. Some guys just seem to know, they are the lucky ones who get laid a lot! As for the rest of us, whether or not someone we like, likes us back… we usually just ask the person. Oh and never touch anyone unless they invite you to.

[Asker]

Hm i see.

I didn't touch anyone but a girl did touch me a few weeks ago. She put her hand on my abdomen where the belly button is.

[CrazyGirl2]

And I will say that she had no right to touch you unless she asked and you gave permission! I absolutely HATE these women who go on and on about “no man has a right to touch a women…. blah blah blah” And yet the first hunky guy she sees, she starts feeling his arms! It goes BOTH ways. If we want to be respected and not have guys putting their hands all over us, then WE need to offer the same respect to MEN! I hate this bullshit, of how “we want equality” but we don’t want to be drafted into the army, we don’t want to pay for drinks (I always buy my own food AND drinks), and when a date comes around suddenly “OMG, He didn't even OFFER to pay” well bitch, maybe he was treating you equally?

[Asker]

Damn that’s right.

The thing is that i dont even know her, she is just a familiar face i have seen for like 3 months. When she put her palm of her hand in my belly i got really nervous and moved a bit away and she put her hand again there when she noticed the gap.

I do like her though but in my opinion we aren't close enough for her to do that.

This is also pretty much the reason why i asked this question. I dont know if she was giving me a sign that she is into me or just being friendly. I asked my sister snd she said that no girl who doesn't know you well touches a guy’s belly, and even then if she knows her, it’s only something you do to a partner.

[CrazyGirl2]

I she touched you, my best guess is that she likes you. I’m not in the habit of touching men I don’t know, but I do know that I would never put my hands on a guy I thought was ugly, or that I really did not like. But I'm just guessing, first, as I wrote, I don’t touch guys w/o their consent. And second… come on, you know she likes you! How many women that you liked but you KNOW that she does not like you, have touched you lately? NONE! So yeah she likes you.

[Asker]

Hmm i see. Thanks

[Anonymous]

I won't touch a guy I'm not interested in and if I am I will make sure to touch him a lot and I won't want the time I'm with him to end.

[Anonymous]

You can't man. It's pretty much a crap shoot. Women throw just as many false signs at you as they do real signs. Because most the time they just want attention.

[Guy13]

If she talks to you she is interested. It does not matter how much she is interested. You ask her out if she speaks to you

[Asker]

Like i said to the other guy, isn't it better to wait for a sign before asking a girl out.

[Rockstarrrrr]

Notice how she looks at you... The eyes, chico. they never lie...

[Anonymous]

You ask her out, and she says "yes". Anything else is speculation.

[Asker]

isn't it better to wait for signs?

[Opinion Owner]

Women are way too subtle. It's impossible to tell if she's interested or just being friendly.

I have been 100% confident that a girl was interested in me and ended up getting rejected. It suckrd but I got over it. Just ask her.