I can never tell. I’m talking about women you only know by face and aren't friends with.
someone could ask me if i have a girlfriend, touch me, initiate convos and stuff, and i still can't tell if there is interest.
I can never tell. I’m talking about women you only know by face and aren't friends with.
someone could ask me if i have a girlfriend, touch me, initiate convos and stuff, and i still can't tell if there is interest.
I mean honestly man, it's a crap shoot sometimes. Not every girl does the same stuff.
I would say if they initiate the conversation with you, it's a pretty good sign. If she is asking things about your life, personal details. Trying to get a sense of what kind of man you are.
But the best way would just be to make YOUR interest known. But don't be creepy about it.
You meet and have a conversation. Ask some questions, to get a sense of if she is single. No ring, no boyfriend. When she is leaving, say you had fun talking with her, and was wondering if she would want to go out for a drink/dinner sometime.
She says yes or no. Then you know and can move on. It's not worth wasting time trying to decipher women. And it actually works. You have to get the number, and the girl on the date as soon as possible if you actually want in to go anywhere these days.
If she talks nicely, is polite and sweet with you then it means she is being friendly. However, if she asks a lot of questions about, your thought process and your relationship status then it means she is interested (possibly)
Is touching also a good sign?
You can't. That's the fun part. You have to throw out the line and see what you get... and see if it's a pissed off snake or a fish that's been looking for you.
Side note: My salesman partner in a walmart did this imaginary fish line to bring people in. He was definitely having fun with his job... on first thought, it was cringy. But now looking back, he was definitely having fun with it and staying positive. I wish I stuck with him more, otherwise I probably wouldn't have left that job so soon.
Is she is just polite, she isn't interested
Touching and asking for your relationship status = interested
She first asked me if i have a girlfriend, and then the next day she touched me. I think she wanted to steer clear in case i had a girlfriend. Is that right?
I would say so from your explanation. Why don't you just ask her for a date and see where it goes
@ElGato31 yeah sure but most aren't that touchy, so that's why I said he should ask her out
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Me neither. I guess that's part of why I'm single. So confusing, between friendly and interested. Seems like a fine line. If only we didn't have to mind read! Do I ever wish I was a mind reader. Like even when they touch you, certain areas they like you , other areas just friends? Ugh fml
Your are in your late twenties? How hard is this. If she engages in conversation with you, and you would like to date her, then just ask her. She might say yes. Great! She might say no. BFD.
Im 25.
I have no experience with dating and i can't tell if someone is interested.
I dont do anything to meet women.
You can't! Women do this deliberately man. Most women love to flirt. But they deliberate keep it non specific. Because they like having the latitude to deny it at anytime and say they where just being friendly.
My advice to you is to not worry about it. Never take ANY woman seriously until there's a good reason to.
You can't. The only difference is how the female feels about it. There is no actual difference in behavior unless they just don't like you at all.
You'll know when you start making physical contact. Try tapping her, holding her hand, giving her hugs, or perhaps ask her out. These will give her the upfront option of filtering you as intimate or friendly.
Ask her
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