I’ve had feelings for my co-worker Sandy for a couple of months, therefore I decided to ask her to hang out one on one. She immediately responded yes, then a few hours later told me to keep it a secret from our friends at work.
Since she had brought up working out a lot recently, I decided to invite her to my gym. It was leg day for me and she did every exercise. She even wanted me to record videos of her doing squats. We had a great time.
While at the gym, she kept wanting to compare height and weight. She claimed she weighed more than me because she’s “bottom heavy”. I told her no and then she asserts I’m too skinny. She also wanted me to stand next to her to compare heights. I’m 5’9”, she’s 5’6” but wants to be 5’7”. She seemed cool with my height, however for weight, she told me to go in the locker room and weigh myself. I did and took a picture, she did too. I weighed more than her. She was shocked and said I “should take a pound off because I was holding my phone”. I’d still be heavier though. Why is she so insecure about this?
After working out, we got smoothies and sat and talked. She kept suggesting things for me to do “with friends” like going to top golf or going to catch a soccer game. For soccer, she kept checking the schedule and complained that she’d be busy and wouldn’t be able to go for at least a month. By her suggesting these things, could this mean that she wants to do these things with me next?
She also asked to see pictures of my parents. I showed a family picture from Christmas a couple years back, she said I don’t look like my mom, but my dad just spat me out. She really liked seeing him. I’ve never had a woman ask to see my family so early. Could she want to meet them soon?
I feel as though these are good indicators of interests, however the whole height-weight debacle and the fact that she wanted me to keep things a secret makes me feel like she might be ashamed of me. Thoughts?
Since she had brought up working out a lot recently, I decided to invite her to my gym. It was leg day for me and she did every exercise. She even wanted me to record videos of her doing squats. We had a great time.
While at the gym, she kept wanting to compare height and weight. She claimed she weighed more than me because she’s “bottom heavy”. I told her no and then she asserts I’m too skinny. She also wanted me to stand next to her to compare heights. I’m 5’9”, she’s 5’6” but wants to be 5’7”. She seemed cool with my height, however for weight, she told me to go in the locker room and weigh myself. I did and took a picture, she did too. I weighed more than her. She was shocked and said I “should take a pound off because I was holding my phone”. I’d still be heavier though. Why is she so insecure about this?
After working out, we got smoothies and sat and talked. She kept suggesting things for me to do “with friends” like going to top golf or going to catch a soccer game. For soccer, she kept checking the schedule and complained that she’d be busy and wouldn’t be able to go for at least a month. By her suggesting these things, could this mean that she wants to do these things with me next?
She also asked to see pictures of my parents. I showed a family picture from Christmas a couple years back, she said I don’t look like my mom, but my dad just spat me out. She really liked seeing him. I’ve never had a woman ask to see my family so early. Could she want to meet them soon?
I feel as though these are good indicators of interests, however the whole height-weight debacle and the fact that she wanted me to keep things a secret makes me feel like she might be ashamed of me. Thoughts?
