Hey this is a better question for women but men can tell me what they think as well?

[Anonymous]

So... Women seem to love me. Now before I get started I have been rejected before and this is really not me saying how great I am. I am really insecure about myself and really don't know if I am good looking or not some days I feel handsome and other days not I also don't like myself much anymore my personality etc.

But I do notice a lot of women smile at me (now this could be friendly) they look at me. I seem to have a lot of things that happen to me. So sometimes women either get super talkative and chatty and showing off while other times they get really nervous but not like they are creeped out. I kind of like being a little intimidating at times if I notice it.

Many times they get really clumsy around me as well. I have a lot of women like waitresses and stuff put their hands on me when talking. They sometimes stand close to me or even against me when talking to my table. I legit also found lipstick once in my food. I never said anything about it though that was a bit too far (she was a nice lady and I think I ended up eating it anyways, gross maybe but what can I say).

I don't think everything is flirting and not every woman flirts with me by no means.

But I also get what some women go through as well when people are really annoying. I don't get approached that often and if I turn someone down I try and be as nice as I can about it. Sometimes some women can get annoying or pester me in public or literally bump into me a million times and that gets old. I have gotten unwanted attention so I really relate to some women.

What is it about a guy that makes you women act this way towards someone though? I know sometimes when I like someone I can get real clumsy myself and everything. I am not full of myself I am just sharing my experience.

I notice a lot of people look at me as well and many people kind of gravitate towards me and not going to lie that can get old sometimes

[Graci_e]

I kinda get it because not to be cocky, but I get a lot of attention too and boys like me - but saying it makes me feel super cocky haha.

It makes you look and sound like such an idiot saying it.

[Asker]

No not at all lol. I mean if it is the truth then... I mean what else can I say?

[Asker]

I don't get attention ALL the time just sometimes when I go out into public that is

[Graci_e]

Yeah exactly. It sounds so silly but it does happen.

[Asker]

Yea not silly at all. Some people think I am full of myself if I talk about it so I don't

[Graci_e]

Yeah I don’t either because it really sounds like you’re full of yourself haha. It even makes me feel that way.

[Asker]

Well I hope I don't sound full of myself. LOL

[Graci_e]

Some people could see that way. But you don’t sound that way to me haha. I get it (now I sound cocky 😳).

[Asker]

No I get what you are saying. Thanks! If I remember I will give you MHA

[Graci_e]

All good! Don’t worry if you forget, but thank you.

[Asker]

You are welcome

[KelleyNice]

If they believe you are safe, they may just want to see if you think they are desirable but would be annoyned if you acted on it.

[Asker]

Sometimes people annoy me a little bit. lol. I don't really talk to people but people don't usually seem to annoyed with me unless it is some bitchy clerk or something.

But that does not really make sense if they are trying to get a reaction and then get annoyed lol. That is kind of dumb to put it nicely

[KelleyNice]

It probably is dumb. However, it is not unusual for a girl to want to know if a guy finds her attractive (it's good for her ego) even when she knows she wouldn't be interested in him. Often she just wants to know, but she is not willing to give him anything in return.
I’m sure you have heard of a girl being a tease: a tease is a girl who makes you think you have a chance, inevitably leaving you unsatisfied That is a version of a tease.

[Asker]

Women who are like that I am just not interested in and I usually can spot them a mile away. More often then not I can kind of tell. I don't talk to many people in public and I have rejected women before and I have talked to them.

Some female friends and stuff have told me how attractive I am and I have gotten unwanted attention before. Though it is not really often.

I do see what you mean about their egos. But most women aren't like that. There is a number of them out there know I am aware of that

[Asker]

I know about women who are a tease trust me I do. LOL. As well as women who actually get to know me and they find out that they have WAY overestimated me and loose interest but oh well most of them are pretty shallow to start with so I don't really care

[Vikkrram]

Buddy let me tell your problem in short , you notice everything but never take any mooves so at the end you came to the point where you started.

[Asker]

Sometimes I do and sometimes I don't I am naturally always scanning it is who I am. I always am situationally aware and always know whose around me and what it is they are doing

[Vikkrram]

Basically it's called overthinhking and it won't let you to take any moove